Why would you want your ex back?

Okay so i totally understand that you were (at one time) in "love" with the girl. We all have done it and even the best PUA find something special sometimes. However, here is flip side.

Although she WAS great and everything WAS awesome, they went bad. Some people aren't meant to be together and sometimes people just need to be okay with that and move on. I had a three year relationship with a girl I loved to death. We broke it off and I was a little bitch about it and said how I would change etc. Now I look back and I am DISGUSTED with how I acted.

Point being, if it ends....let it go. Millions of people out there.


-The Dude

i need to go back at least once

Maybe its what people need to find out that it will never work. I've been in this spot before, but the funny thing was is after i got my girlfriend of 2 years back. I realized how we just couldn't be to together.

I'd like to start off by saying Immortal Technique is the sh1t ... I'm talking about the hip-hop artist, lol. Also, I have to agree dude. I'm in the same boat and I have broken up with my ex no more than 2 months ago. It's not worth it man ... There are so many fine ass women out there. Think about it this way: If you had a limitless amount of pussy being thrown at you, would you really still be wallowing over this chick, lol ... I don't think so dude. If you want to give it a shot, for practice, then go ahead but it failed for a reason. Also, If she isn't putting any effort to fix things between you two then she is going to drag you around like a bitch as you try to patch things up with her yourself.

I agree, I think men who try to win an ex back are giving up a piece of their dignity to even try to do so. Once you're wronged, you don't go back. Men who try to win over girls who dumped them are like pigs returning to vomit (and we've all been pigs trying to return to vomit at one point, there's no shame admitting the truth, but there is shame in continuing to make the same mistakes when yo know better). She should be begging to get back with you, if anything. Just move on. There's billions of women in the world. Men who try to win an ex back usually put some woman on a pedestal.

I had a relationship with a girl that lasted nearly 3 years. She had the perfect body, and a great personality. She just started to fall apart on me one summer. She started staying out til 4 AM drinking with a known-slut who became her new best friend. She started acting weird, and so I dumped her after a few months. I didn't want to get cheated on (although I may have been, who knows), and I learned that you can have airtight game and be an awesome BF who stays alpha, but that does not guarantee a hoe won't be a hoe. Let hoes go. Let bitches go ruin their lives riding the cock carousel and then pop mounds of depression meds when they wind up with a wife beating moron or alone and childless in their 30's with no prospects outside of dweebs, and realize they squandered their youth and beauty to be a whore. Put all your time and effort into good girls who deserve your affection, particularly if you're looking for a relationship.