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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Back with the ex. Head games

    So me and my ex gf broke up about 4 months ago. It was over a lot of stuff, she instigated it, I agreed and genuinely thought it was for the best. She inundated me with calls and emails and texts. I replied to about a third. Basically she begged for me back. I finally agreed to see her, and we saw each other every weekend for say 2 months.

    Thing is things are really different. She was totally obsessed with me, but this time wants to take it slow, she says she has no expectations. she told me this three weeks ago.

    I backed off when she said this. And then she started complaining i wasnt giving her enough attention, and asked me if i was seeing other women......

    Thing is - she wants to take it slow, but also expects me to be monogamous.....she also complains i dont give her attention and am busy a lot of the time. and now shes distant again. her phone is switched off this morning, and if anything it seems like her whos up to no good.

    I havent been dating anyone else, but i have got a few numbers during the last two months - i havent gone out on dates but her wishy washiness means im between a rock and a hard place. what do i do?

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    mrdatingconsultantdmv is offline Banned PUA Achievements:
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    Default Re: Back with the ex. Head games

    Tell her how much you value her and care about her but let her know that you're not going to accept her wishy-washiness in a polite way because you expect better. Then move on.

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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Back with the ex. Head games

    Ive just found something pretty bad out,which has pushed me pretty far.

    While broken up she met up with her ex bf. she told me this, and i was fine, she had stuff she needed to settle with him.

    Turns out they didnt just go for a coffee like she said. they went on a trip together with a few other people. she did not tell me this. i heard through someone else.

    Now, how do i extricate myself from this situation? how does a player handle this?

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    Default Re: Back with the ex. Head games

    Act like it didnt' happen..

    When you get caught up with one girl, little things like that will hurt you more. I understand the whole dynamics of good and dysfunctional relationships, what you have here is worse than dysfunctional. Break it off and find other women. It might be a smack to the face, but when you're freaking out about every little thing like this then you know you need to take a step back and think about things.. logically.


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