So me and my ex gf broke up about 4 months ago. It was over a lot of stuff, she instigated it, I agreed and genuinely thought it was for the best. She inundated me with calls and emails and texts. I replied to about a third. Basically she begged for me back. I finally agreed to see her, and we saw each other every weekend for say 2 months.
Thing is things are really different. She was totally obsessed with me, but this time wants to take it slow, she says she has no expectations. she told me this three weeks ago.
I backed off when she said this. And then she started complaining i wasnt giving her enough attention, and asked me if i was seeing other women......
Thing is - she wants to take it slow, but also expects me to be monogamous.....she also complains i dont give her attention and am busy a lot of the time. and now shes distant again. her phone is switched off this morning, and if anything it seems like her whos up to no good.
I havent been dating anyone else, but i have got a few numbers during the last two months - i havent gone out on dates but her wishy washiness means im between a rock and a hard place. what do i do?