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    Default Thinking about an ex

    Well guys its like this. Around 3 and 1/2 years ago I was seeing this girl and she was pretty great. HB 8 or 9 for sure. Unfortunately I putsed up that relationship pretty good, after a few f-closes.....we were a bit young but still got the close back then. After a difference of opinion I decided to freeze her out for about a week and then try some damage control (funny thing is back then I didn't even know that a Freeze Out was a legit technique). Well it's been 3 and 1/2 years and I still havn't talked to her and for the better part of that time havn't thought about her all that much, until the last few weeks. In this time i've been having plenty of fun, continuous partying and seen a few girls as well. However something triggered her memory a few weeks ago and I'm toying around with contacting her. Anyone else think this is a bad idea? I really thought I had her memory kicked but these last 2 weeks have been torture.

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    k bys 50 odd views and on-one can at least give their opinion. Its easier to get advise out of youtube

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    hey, I think you should go talk to her and tell us what happened
    you should give it a try

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    if you want to talk to her then talk to her. its not that hard to figure out. Man up and do it.

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    Well gents, got an update;

    This morning before I went to school I was enjoying breakfast and listing to some music on my computer. As I finally manage to close youtube and decide to go to class I quickly check facebook for any updates before I left. Got a message from that ex. Well my eyes pretty much jumped out of my head and jaw on the floor. Absolutely the very last person that I had expected to here from. It was sept 27 when I messaged her after all and since then its been absolute silence between us. Almost a month.

    Well anyway the jest of the message is she apologizes for taking so long to get back to me, asks how i've been blah blah blah and says she would like to meet me again as well. Asks what time are good for me.

    I figgure i'll message her back late tomorrow and set something up for late next week. One of the many things I messed up last time round with this one is I was def trying to hard to hang out with her so this time round goin in much more relaxed. Also last time around I had her up on a pedestal but one of the reasons I waited so long until getting ahold of her again is I wanted to make sure I was ready to play the game right.

    Any tips you guys would like to throw in im open to suggestions. I'll keep you updated.

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    I'm happy to see how u seem to be cool about what's happening now, dude!
    I think u should keep doing what u're already doing (REALLY!)

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    Default Re: Thinking about an ex

    You could be in a very advantageous position, you've already established rapport 3 1/2 years ago, and you know she's attracted to you physically (previous f-closes). Let that knowledge give you confidence going in, and most importantly have fun.


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