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    thegrimsweeper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Well I messed up, girlfriend just broke up with me

    Well I messed up bad.

    My girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me Sunday night, though it had been in the works for a few weeks.

    I got laid off in August, was only off work for about a month and i guess I got kind of down and depressed about it.

    Anyway she started getting distant and I fell into the mistake of becoming a doormat. tried far too hard too please her, did almost anything she asked, didn't tease her or challenge her much at all.

    I realized this was happening and tried to correct it over the past week but it was too little too late, she told me Sunday she had lost attraction too me and that I was predictable, or became boring I guess. She then blurted out the terrible words of she started viewing me more as a friend.

    Anyway she wanted to stay friends, which I turned down, she cried and left.

    Is there anyway out of this disaster for me? I don't plan to ever be friend zoned by her. For now I am not going to talk to her until I get my confidence back.

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    Default Re: Well I messed up, girlfriend just broke up with me

    I was in a similar situation. My ex wife actually agreed to let me quit my job so I could go back to school to "better" our lives together. Yea...lol That lasted about 2 quarters of school and me not working before her "lack of" kicked in. She all of sudden viewed me the same way you mention above. I hated to think most guys were always right about women and weakness but I suppose that was a wake up call for me (Bro I'm 30 lol and was married for 4 years)

    I felt pretty damn low for what she had did to me. Straight thrown under the bus! But I now see it as my mistake for allowing her to have control. Well, my major slump lasted a week until I pulled my ass up and went sargin. It sucks at first but you quickly get over it when a female acknowledges you and smiles. You will gain your confidence back quickly but you HAVE to get out and look for someone.

    As soon as I started texting with girls/women and eventually humpin em wouldn't you know who finds out and starts randomly stopping by to see how the "dogs are doing" hahaha. Build your social proof back up my man and the Universe will send that girl a msg and she will likely be back in your cel phone texting you. Girls can be stupid and competitive when they know their ex is having a good time and they aren't.

    Never again will Subtle allow a women to control my life like I allowed!

    Good Luck my man! You CAN and WILL get better!! And when you do recover you will be unstoppable! Go get em!
    manana ,

    Subtle

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    thegrimsweeper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Well I messed up, girlfriend just broke up with me

    It helps knowing someone else has gone through the same thing.

    I just feel like an idiot for allowing myself to become like that, especially since I knew it all along. I'm down and she's on top of the world right now. i can't wait until the day that changes.

    I'm right as you described thrown under the bus right now, in a crisis and feel awful about it.

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    Subtle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Just keep positive. Thoughts have a tendency to direct traffic in your life so make sure you keep your thinking in control. A girl can't control herself around you when you're non reactive. And you'll have all the control if you stay as pilot in command.
    manana ,

    Subtle


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