Well I messed up bad.
My girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me Sunday night, though it had been in the works for a few weeks.
I got laid off in August, was only off work for about a month and i guess I got kind of down and depressed about it.
Anyway she started getting distant and I fell into the mistake of becoming a doormat. tried far too hard too please her, did almost anything she asked, didn't tease her or challenge her much at all.
I realized this was happening and tried to correct it over the past week but it was too little too late, she told me Sunday she had lost attraction too me and that I was predictable, or became boring I guess. She then blurted out the terrible words of she started viewing me more as a friend.
Anyway she wanted to stay friends, which I turned down, she cried and left.
Is there anyway out of this disaster for me? I don't plan to ever be friend zoned by her. For now I am not going to talk to her until I get my confidence back.