I'm 25, she is 35 and has two kids. We were together for 6 weeks. She has ADD and wasn't happy with herself, she wanted a break, I told her I don't believe in breaks so we decided to end it(this was 2 days ago).
The day after (yesterday) I went to her bar with a female friend she met once before. I went there with the intention that I did not care if we would get back together or not. I just wanted to go there to see how she would respond, knowing that it prob would have been a mistake to go there if I my intention was to get her back.
There was still chemistry, I made her smile every single time she came over to talk. Then my friend was ready to leave and I walked her to her car. My ex raised her voice and said "Bye *my name*". I told her I'm not leaving yet.
Now I was sitting by myself at the bar which i wasn't really comfortable with. I told my ex that I needed to sober up a little before I would drive home. After 10 min I told her I'm taking off and we said bye in a casual way, at least I did by looking away.
At 1am I got a text saying
HB9: "It was good seeing u tonight, hope you got home safe. Goodnight"
Me: "Thx. I only hit 4 cars and 1 tree along the way, so not so bad"
HB9: Oh well that's only 50 points....better than my 80 points lol
5 min later
HB9: Sweetdreams *my name*
I didnt text back, also because I was half asleep already.
Is she testing who still cares more or is she genuine? Obviously she still cares or she wouldn't have texted me.
My plan is not to go to her bar for at least a week to show her that I'm fine without her. I'm expecting her to text me at one point. Any other game plans that I should use....?