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    doublej21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Advice on How to proceed

    My gf of about 6 months just broke up with me the other day. I am still trying to figure out exactly what happened and why exactly she lost attraction for me. I don't feel like I was too needy or clingy as we would sometimes go a couple of days without talking and generally she would be the one to initiate the contact. But she said that she had lost the spark and that she didn't have time for a relationship right now. She has been really busy with work lately and will be for the next month, Halloween sh1t. We had only been able to see each other 3 times in the last month and we only had sex one time. Like I said I gave her space and did my own thing a lot of the time in that last month. I am wondering if I gave her too much space and because we weren't able to have as much physical contact if that is why things fizzled out or if there could be something else. I am really not sure. The good thing is that she said that after she is not as busy at work after this month she would want to meet up and see if we could re-ignite that spark. Everything I have read has indicated to wait 3 to 4 weeks to initiate contact, which would be at the start of next month. Now my next question is should try to contact her in the first week of the month, or would that seem too needy because she might be expecting it since it is when she said she would be willing to talk again. But at the same time I don't want to wait too long to lose any shot.

    So to summarize I have two questions.

    What is it that may have caused her to lose attraction?

    When should I initiate contact with her?


    Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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    OTN1123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Advice on How to proceed

    She said after this month she wouldn't be busy and would be willing to meet up. I would wait at least until the end of the month, if not a week or 2 after to contact her. If you call her right at the end of the month that may turn her off. If you give it a few weeks after it will make her think that you have been busy and are just now getting time to get back to her. It is hard and easier said then done. Trust me, I was just in the situation and had to wait over 2 months to reconnect with my ex. You have probably been told this a million times, but try to get out and just live your life and assume that you won't ever get back together. If you do great, if you don't then you haven't been wasting a month of your life worrying about her. I know, easier said then done. Good luck.


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