Re: Getting SOCIAL BUTTERFLY (pandoras box) back!
Well. The Mystery Method is how to pick up girls, not how to keep them. I would wait until she contacts you, or 2 weeks since you last spoke.
Try to take her to a party or something. If she has a good time, she will associate the good time she had with you. If you do end up going to a party, make sure you are socializing with everyone and not making it so you are around her all the time. That would also make you look needy.
To not look needy, don't contact her for awhile, and show non-needy behavior once you guys are hanging out (Like saying something like you miss her or something... that would just be sealing your fate). What did you do to make yourself look needy in the first place? That may help me decipher what you can do to counteract that opinion.
There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.
Be the flame, not the moth.