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    Default Getting SOCIAL BUTTERFLY (pandoras box) back!

    In the beginning of the summer I met a girl and we got sexual very fast and had all-summer adventure.

    In the mid-summer I started reading Mystery Methode back and forth and changed my approach to her for dunno what reason and it actually back-fired, at the end I EVEN SHOWED insecurity and neediness.
    We have now decided to stay FwB but I feel that she lost interest into me that she had in the beginning of the summer.

    After reading pandoras box I realised that she fits exactly into social butterfly type of person and I was doing correct things unintentionally in the beginning of the summer, however changed approach after reading MM and lost her interest.
    She said she ll contact me for coffe or casual sex but nothing from her for a week.

    I know exactly what things to do when I meet her next time and everything but how do I repair my image of neediness?? Should I contact her for coffe/sex or just wait??
    HELP !!!

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    Default Re: Getting SOCIAL BUTTERFLY (pandoras box) back!

    BUMP
    since Im fucking desprate on this one !!!

    I dont really love her, neither we had any personal interests together but cant accept I blew it up so fucking bad -.-

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    Default Re: Getting SOCIAL BUTTERFLY (pandoras box) back!

    Well. The Mystery Method is how to pick up girls, not how to keep them. I would wait until she contacts you, or 2 weeks since you last spoke.

    Try to take her to a party or something. If she has a good time, she will associate the good time she had with you. If you do end up going to a party, make sure you are socializing with everyone and not making it so you are around her all the time. That would also make you look needy.

    To not look needy, don't contact her for awhile, and show non-needy behavior once you guys are hanging out (Like saying something like you miss her or something... that would just be sealing your fate). What did you do to make yourself look needy in the first place? That may help me decipher what you can do to counteract that opinion.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Default Re: Getting SOCIAL BUTTERFLY (pandoras box) back!

    Uff, love this forum

    Ty so much man.


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