Things To Do With an Emotional (or Less Experienced girl) Girl

Hey guys Lionheart here,wow its been forever since I've been on these forums. I'm writing here today to give a brief summary of things you should and shouldn't do before you get into a relationship and after your in it so you never have to end up in this section of the forum.
Alright so brief history of me I'm a 20 year old 5'7'' college student in my junior year of a very rigorous program to becoming a respiratory therapist and eventually going off to med school (aka my first problem). Guys understand that women are a load of work and time especially the more emotionally needy ones. Like my past girlfriend that I just broke up with last week (we ended up friends, maybe come back to her. We'll see :P). Girls, especially the less experienced ones need a lot of attention they still are new to the dating world and when I say lots, I mean LOTS. If youre a real relaxed guy that just wants a girl to have sex with and drink beer with, you may want to steer clear of the less experienced types. They still believe the things they read in cosmo and havent made their own decisions yet about what they want. Or have come to accept that cute things like leaving notes and flowers everywhere for them is somewhat tedious time consuming on our part. When really we are trained that doing this could aggitate if not smother other women. You have to make the call on this. This is where I highly, HIGHLY recommend getting a book on body language. Nothing but great stuff in them.
Anyways back to what I was saying, girls regardless of experience require time. If you don't have loads of time you cannot get a puppy. Hope that logic makes sense.
Em, the other thing I wanted to cover was understanding sex, how it should be brought up, when should you start, how often you should have it. The only thing I can say here is MOOD! You must read the setting and the mood of the girl. Again this is for people currently in relationships. Sex is one of the single most important aspects of a relationship. And the where, how, and when, are all critically important but this may be a little long to describe so if anyone wants me to post more on this please feel free to post and I will explain more otherwise it may be just a dead page. I'm open to questions ask away.

Man, I'm having ENORMOUS problems with my 'less experienced' girlfriend. I've been thru all you just typed and would love to hear about your experiences. Share away!

Most importantly, HOW THE HELL do I bring up sex and start her up on this? it's been lacking major in my relationship, definitely.

I'm new to getting back into dating and not nearly as experienced as a lot of others on these boards but my perspective with inexperienced girls and girls with prior trauma is that the same stuff works on them but they just move slower. I've kind of been seeing one myself who is inexperienced and who has some prior trauma in that her only other sexual encounter was a violent rape and things are going in the right direction, just slower than with other girls I've been with

On the topic of sex with these types and in general, these girls are more than likely not going to have sex with you until youre in a relationship with them and even more so they really have to trust you. No matter how much game you throw they absolutely have to trust you. The next thing I'm going to recommend is reading about the Escalation ladder and ramp. These are great help for no matter who you are dealing with. The main thing is you have to make it feel natural and like its the next step. For example next time you kiss your girls (I dont know how far you both have gotten?) try getting a little more intimate. Kiss her ear and neck, and along her collar bone if she doesnt stop you keep moving down kiss around the breasts alot! And then move down further to the stomach and along the belt line. If she doesnt stop you then pull her jeans down a little and kiss her pelvis. More than likely if she lets you make it that far sex shouldnt be too far away. But the key with this is take your time. Treat it like you are worshiping her body or painting a masterpiece. Take your time and mean it. If you get stopped at any point just back off and accept that is the place she trusts you to for now. This is of course the technique I use on most virgin girls. Tell me how you guys do at this point. One other thing I can recommend is laying on top of her and put one leg inbetween hers and do some very light grinding while making out and see where that takes you. Tell me how you guys do and dont get discouraged if you dont make it too far these things take time and trust you cant push them.

One other thing is make it a special night. Definitely take her out to dinneror do something special. Have a condom on you. AND look comfortable doing this.

One thing that's been crippling me is that it's sometimes hard to build trust to that level. In my experience, anything that goes wrong in the relationship has the potential to kill her attraction/trust, and each time it feels harder to level it up again.

Well trust is build by sharing yourself with the other person. The more the person thinks they know you the more they trust you. Let her know more about yourself

Something I discovered recently and it could be just a bought or cynicism but as a PUA you slowly give up the idea of "love". The problem with this type of girl is that they usually operate on this level or the idea that love exists and governs relationship. You either have to fake this very well (lol I fail at this).

You know, I'm a very cynical person in general but I can't say I agree with this. I think it's more that you come to realize that love isn't what most people think it is and appreciate what you have more as opposed to (like most people) taking what they have for granted and focusing themselves on acquiring that which they don't already possess.

The thing that works the best for me, so far, picking up girls isn't just being good looking or funny. It's that I don't care if I get the girl or not - I'm not out to just pick up a girl. Because of that I don't make the AFC mistakes of every other guy and put her on a pedestal, which piques her interest. I make no secret of my interest when I'm interested but also refuse to put her before me. I guess what I'm saying is; I don't think being a PUA means you give up on love. I think it does teach you to love yourself enough to say "screw it, I'm not going to play BS games with X girl, I'm worth more than that."

You know youre right, something I realized after thinking about what I heard today from a close friend and the ex that I orginially wrote this post about. She started dating what all the girls referred to as a douche. I have met him in person and would describe him as such as well. Interesting thing about these types very new to dating is that they still need to grow in the idea of relationships in this world before they can appreciate a person who has studied PUA. Being able to see why girls do things makes you a walking rule book to the game. And they dont like it when you can feel you predicting their moves and being almost perfectly understanding, because they dont understand the rules at all.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that these types dont like you not growing with them. And my previous comments on love are invalid. You gain love over time, but the love at first sight thing that everyone belives in is total bull