Okay, i will give a lot of detail so you guys can get the main point of it.
Me and my ex lasted a total of a year and a half. In this year we broke up 5 times. (All me, includding the last break up). I was very nice to her during the relationship, however when we were apart ( because we lived in different cities) I really wouldnt give her too much attention because she was texting me like 10 times a day and if i didnt respond it was a bad thing. I remember her saying shit like "can u text me okay, instead of just k so i think u still like me "..it was annoying. The first break up i broke up with her because i really thought i wasnt into it and it wudnt go anywhere, we remained friends ..got back together and we had this thing where basically we would break up but it would still be best friends and still have sex etc. I even told her during this that if we werent dating..we shud always have eachother as backups lol stupid thinking at the time.. i know...so we would date other ppl but always have eachtoher kinda deal .it worked though for the time that she liked me. basically i wasnt as into her as she was into me...but i always treated her as if she was the one thing in the world that made me happy when i was with her. Its funny bc she would sometimes ask me if she still likes me and my reaction to that would be grabbing her hand and screaming on the street that i like her and just joking with people that walked by. Anyway i liked to make her feel special. She was basically my best friend that I could trust with anything and she was always there for me. Then..a short while after i actually started to love her. So at this point we were dating like 6 months passed and i kept breaking up with ehr as if to teach her a lesson eg. she always talked bad about some of her friends...but as soon as they were nice to her she went back to them. She loved me a LOT. and it kind of ended like this...I told her i wanted to take soem time off and we should have a few months..because oh i forgot to mention..i was going through a tough time socially...so i told her this... im like ill open up to you..but you should know that u wont like it. and u might not see me the same way again..she told me its okay and blah blah....but i overdid it with talking about negatives for months...and i broke up with her after she was so nice to me..because she was still over obsessive over me and kinda crazy..but after the breakup i realised that i may have just overblown her over obsessiveness. it was kind of cute and i miss it. basically after we broke up...i had exams i still messaged her because i thought the breakup was kinda a joke...i walked into her work one day on my dads b day to talk to her and she didnt even wanna c me..next i saw her at some park with mutual friends we had a group together...we went for drinsk and i started talking about the girl i was hitting on the subway...she makes fun of me in serbian..im like in front of the group..." girl we're broken up can u just drop it and can we all have a good time.. i have nothing with you let it go " .. she got a new boyfriend pretty quick..less than 2 months and they've been dating since. this was at the end of june. i broke them and their bf up in sept..bc i caught him texting a friend...for sex sorta ..and i was so in love with her after i went to her house..talked to her about how much i missed her and went for a walk...she looekd at me as if i was pathetic... (wierd to me..bc a few months ago i was everythign to her) ..then as a last resort... i showed her the text i had a picture of...she broke up with him for about 2 weeks or so.. now it seems like shes more in love with him than she is with me. and i dont know what to do..sry for the long essay... im trying to tell u all everything. i never get to see this girl...she deleted my number..all our mutual friends on facebook..and running into her is really hard. she will avoid me and shes the type that is independent and will say what she means even in public.