Im new to PUA life, anyway here we go.
My ex girl friend and i were together for almost 3 years.. then all of a sudden she suddenly called us off, after later questioning her she said she wasnt in love with me anymore, which i dont know if im in denial or not but a week before she did it we were all over each other laughing and happy. It all seemed to happen after we had a big fight. Point to know alot of our relation ship was long distance.
At first after the break up i was consistently still trying to talk to her That made it harder i found and i would of been coming across clingy.
so my friend showed me this PUA, started doing some light reading, going out testing it all. very surprised by the successes i have been having most weekends i F - Close or at least K- close.
anyway back to the ex situation im still in love with her, it have trouble sleeping most nights, she is constantly on my mind, its driving me insane.
Now i guess my intention is not to get back with her there isnt enough time for that as much as i would like to.
Im off to Afghanistan in a month or so for 6 months and she is off to Europe for 2 months in a couple of weeks. So that is going to be at least 7 months apart.
We have been split for about 2 and a bit months now.. over the last 3 weeks i have been Freezing Her Out. Last weekend i received at text message from her out of no were when i was out saying "miss you shane" i didnt reply straight away until i got home early the nest morning just said "just rememberd you text me, i hope you had a good night . She later replied " haha sorry about that, i had a good night hope your well" or something like that.
My guessing is that she was drunk out and about.
We didnt talk for a week after that, we are both currently in the same town so i messaged her on facebook last night saying " lets catch up before you and i head off. lets not be strangers "
she replied "Yeah sure. does the weekend work for you? hope your well"
So i guess from all of this im just wondering how i should act around her when i see her. should i Push Pull. be distant but still be happy and myself.
i just want to leave a last impression on her thats going to make her miss me and really get her thinking if she has done the right thing
Hope yous can all understand any advice will be great thanks guys !
Should i even see her at all? would it be better if i didnt?