So I broke with my ex almost 4 weeks ago. Well she dumped me actually. At first she restricted me on FB and it was like 4 days no contact at all, didn't pick up the phone either. Then after some messages I sent her she told me she wanted to be alone, space and all that crap. Well now I got her on FB again and sometimes message/chat briefly.
The thing is yesterday she talked to me again on FB, a bit longer tha usual. She also mentioned "why did you become a fan of that?" (A liquor delivery site) "I'm the facebook cop remember? haha" Something I used to tease her with. She also nugged me about drinking booze cause she's all fit and stuff.
I answered " I don't know whose cop you are but certainly not mine, thankfully, I just click like on stuff to check it out later".
Next thing I know out of the blues she sent me a pic of us together during a trip we made to my email.
What do you think of this? I sent her a message saying "Why do you send me that pic to my email? I've already seen it..." No reply so far just sent that and I know shes online and has read it.
Do you think it is a good sign? Or maybe she's clearing pics from her camera and wanted me to have it? By the way we appear cheerful and happy on the pic and she said before she liked it. Maybe I shouldn't have said anything about it...but what do you think?
And for those lads whose advice is "just move on"... I'm on it, but if I got back with her it would be on my terms and give me confidence to check elsewhere for other prospects and maybe dump her as she did to me. Don't give me the "that's unethical" thing. Bches are unethical all the time. Also having someone to fk wouldnt be that bad.
So what do you think about the pic...I guess iI should not take her so seriously but might it be a sign that she misses me or something?
Also another question, IF and only if she wants to hang out again or come back with me should I accept right away? Maybe if I do that she will take me for granted and not respect me. But if I play it too difficult she might move on.
I haven't seen her since we broke up and wanted to freeze her until past new years. Do you think I should cut off every sort of communication including posting, commenting, messaging, chatting and/or liking stuff in her profile?
Should I send another message depending of her reply or no reply before freezing for good?
Any insights are welcome thanks for reading the long post.