Need to get ex back from rebound relationship...

Thanks Dan. I am feeling a lot better about things!

A little update...

So about a week after she txt me to say she thought we shouldn't be friends on fb anymore, she txt me last night about a tv show I tweeted about, asking if I was serious about liking it. I left it an hour before replying saying that I thought it was great. She replied...

Her - 'And I thought you had good taste...'
Me - 'Why would you ever think that??'
Her - 'Well you went out with me didn't you!!'
Me - 'That doesn't prove anything '

There was a bit of banter back and forth after that and then I told her that I was going to bed cos I had a long day today and ended the conversation.

Any thoughts?

Another update...

She text me again the following night asking why I didn't fight for her when we broke up. I told her that if I had and we got back together it probably wouldn't have been any different so it was for the best that we gave each other some space. Later that evening she said that she felt like I had forgotten about her.

Then she text me again last night saying that she was feeling sad and that she missed me, my friends and my family cos she felt like they were her friends and family as well.

She has now text me without fail, the last 4 nights. She's going to be working in my area this Sunday. Should I bite the bullet and see if she wants to grab something to eat after? If so, how should I go about it?

I think sometimes people break up for a reason. Go with your gut on this, and possibly see her - but keep in mind why you broke up.

4ad

Thanks John.

Funnily enough, she text me tonight asking if I knew of anyone who could put her up for the night on Saturday (she doesn't live in my area). Here's the conversation...

Her - 'Don't suppose you know anyone that could put me up do you?'
Me - 'This Saturday?'
Her - 'Yeah'
Me - 'I can ask around'
Her - 'Well don't make me out to be desperate!'
Me - 'Haha well aren't you?'
Her - 'No'
Me - 'Well I'll see what I can do'
Her - 'Seriously, don't worry. I thought you might know off the top of your head. It's cool'
Me - 'Well it won't hurt to ask. Obviously I would offer for you to stay here but I didn't think you'd be interested'
Her - 'And there's me thinking you've got more exciting plans...'
Me - 'Well you are fortunate to have caught me on a quiet weekend. And if you want, I may even treat you to lunch after your shift'

Haven't heard back since that last text. I'm also wondering if she could just be using me for somewhere to crash but I suppose as long as I get something out of it it won't be that bad! haha

Any thoughts guys?

So she's staying at mine tonight and I'm cooking dinner.

I figure the best way to play this is to not expect anything to happen, just look at it as a friend coming over to stay. I'm gonna try and steer clear of talking about the relationship, maybe only the good things as they will get her thinking about the good times we had.

Let's see what happens...