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    hey guys, i posted here a couple days ago about winning back a hopeful romantic after i lost trust with her. today she came back in my shop after i hadn't seen her in a month and returned a movie i loaned to her. she mentioned that she had thought about coming back in to eat and locked eyes with me for just a moment. is there still hope? and if there is how to i work my way back?

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    Default Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    Bro even if there is she has to communicate it don't go all AFC and tell her i see the way u look at me ...... just forget about it. when u see her make her feel that u moved on she'll feel more comfortable talking with u (she probably won't talk about that just normal small talk)

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    Default Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    that's right, she did just make small talk. what should i talk about, and how should i steer it back?

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    Default Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    the weather, the game last night idk talk about anything other then ur feelings towards her. if she wants u then she will come back on her own don't over think it.She feels just as awkward around u then u do around her so just chill, she will in return relax as well and will come back to u on her own

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    Question Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    I am new to the pua culture. however, I have somewhat explored the pandora's box 8 types of women material. And I also have almost the SAME exact problem as MPAGE1950.

    The girl was a 22yr old HB9 and she is a hopeful romantic(NDI). I was aone day elder to her She was all over me. We were in touch almost like 24/7 for almost 2 years. It was the best time of my life. It was my first gf. and I was her 3rd bf. The 1st one was a 35yr old guy. 2nd was a 23 yr old.

    In the last 6 months of these 2 years, I was not able to be with her all the time as we were in different time zones. and then all of a sudden she was going to get married to some other guy ditching me.

    I got so insecure and I played a huge part in stopping the marriage anonymously, and she obviously knew it was me, and then was a phase of trauma for both of us fighting for the next 4 months on and off. There were short stints of good times in between , and I screwed it up royally, and now I know why she vanished and made it a short stint.

    When I think back now, I feel ashamed that I should not have given up that huge amount of my self esteem.

    Now its been two month since I spoke to her. We live 250 miles apart. And i am in the starting stage of my career.

    I want her back. Waiting for her to call me one day sounds impossible. But, approaching her also seems to be a bad idea and I feel insecure that I might waste this huge period of anticiaption i created.

    What say guys? I just want a decent once more chance, cos I understood a lot about women at present compared to the dumb guy I was.

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    Default Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    Nivas, it seems like a good story, so maybe you should make a post about it. For this particular one, however, let's try and focus on mpage1950's issue.

    Because you are going in kind of blind and not sure how she feels about you, you want to focus on keeping it light and fun and conveying that attractive guy she once met. Basically starting from scratch. Attraction is like a flame that needs to be fed so feed it and then you can start to show your interest in her as a woman. Not before. Once you get enough ioi's then you can move to a more serious tone of where your relationship may be going. But not too heavy lol. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: regaining trust with a hopeful romantic

    Thanks for the suggestion, Batman.

    I have created a separate thread as suggested. Hope you save me like my childhood hero does.

    Psst, I posted the thread from an anonymous account.

    I could not post the URL. So, here's the post name:
    HELP in Patch up with my Ex who is a HOPEFUL ROMANTIC (from: pandora's box)


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