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    sullym is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help me with breakup - long though

    Dark Silver Wolf pull yourself together man! Heartbreak sucks, I spent Januray drinking heavily to get over it, but now I'm out the other side I realised I don't need anyone, fair enough it's nice but if it isnt meant to be it isnt meant to be. Take the month or two to enjoy yourself, go out, meet new girls and have new experiences, if you show her you can do better without her she'll be the one who wants you more for it in the end. Think of the world as your party that she was just invited to, take that party elsewhere and see if you still want to invite her next month!

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    Default Re: Help me with breakup - long though

    Great advice Sullym.

    I'm probably further away from getting back with my ex than I was when I first posted this. We have friendship and I aim to not loose that but recently the strangest things have happened. I decided not to initiate contact for a month, went away to Asia for 2 weeks and every 3 days she'd contact me, this has gone on for a few weeks (she had originally asked for no contact). I kept up my side of the bargain and eventually she contacted last week to say she wouldn't be contacting me for a while for my own good. Weird as I haven't been clingy or needy and like i say not initiating contact, only responding, she said she had thought of getting back with me but decided its too soon but says she'll always love me..

    I've come to the realisation that I'm not fit for a relationship with anyone at the moment and need to work on myself. It's hard not to go AFC and chase but until I know that no one is my world, no one makes my world complete and that I do actually have a life without a woman I'm not going back there or with anyone else for that matter.

    3 years ago my marriage split up, I lost my home, moved back to my parents and lost my job 2 months ago. This loss of independence has affected me in ways that I didn't recognise and sorting these issues is priority as they are counter productive to holding down any relationship let alone giving a failed one a second chance.

    Dark Silver Wolf - I really do feel your pain but takes Sullym's advice and do some work on you. It's ok to miss her and tell yourself you love her but put yourself first and work on you as a broken hearted you won't be any use to her at the moment. I hope it turns out well for you man.


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