LJBF after first kiss

Hi, guys!

Well, I'm gonna be brief about this:

I met a girl in September (she's friends with a huge friend of mine). She showed a lot of interest and we kept contact (facebook, etc.). In October, we started going out as friends. Everything was really cool and we got closer everyday. We started watching movies at my place. Everyday getting closer, until we ended up kissing for the whole night.

After that night (somewhere in the middle of December), she went cold. I asked her about it and she said she messed things up in her head and that she just wanted to be friends. But also she said she wouldn't like to lose our proximity.

The thing is, since then, things got farked up. She takes eternities to answer my messages, she asks me out and then she ends up cancelling our dates for all kinds of excuses. We watched a movie in my place a few days ago, but she didn't show any predisposition and nothing happened.
I admit that I'm completely into her emotionally, so I would like some advise. What should I do? Should I give up?

Thank you and sorry for my bad English

I got you man. Well what you have here is some serious Last Minute Resistance. But it appears like its been going on for awhile, what you need to do is (this is gonna be tough on you especially if youre emotionally invested in this girl) stop talking to her. Right now shes flaking on you because she is either:

1. worried she may lose her friendship with you if it doesnt work out.
2. worried youre going to be like a lot of guys and start texting her and bugging her constantly and creeping on her.

First bit of advice I am going to give to you is that you need to talk with other girls. I dont care if you flirt with them or just talk plainly with them. Flirting is best because it will help you grow more. And the second thing is you need to find something to replace the time you spend thinking about her. Best thing is for you to go to the gym and work out, if you already do push harder. You will balance out your emotions that way.
If she happens to text you, you need to give her very short messages and pretend youre busy. Basically you need to turn the tables on her and Flake on her. You really need to resist the urge to talk to her. Sounds like you really like this girl, this will be no easy task for you.

The reward: after about one month of this, you need to talk to her and be very energetic dont tell her what youve been doing. The aire of Mystery is what is going to give you an edge. And dont text her call her up and vocally speak with her and plan a date. Go full out flirting look in the forum here for some good stuff. And goodluck man.

Fortunately, even though I like this girl a lot, I'm not with oneitis. I'm already talking to some other girls, flirting with two of them and it's helping me keeping focused and not acting AFC.
I'm also spending time swimming and playing tennis, which is keeping me from thinking too much about it.

I've started acting busy and cancelling dates with her too. Let's see how effective this will be.

Thanks for your advice, man!