how patethically bad i did?

i dont know what to do now. should i wait until she makes a move and calls or do i attack her with some texts? i dont want to look needy. shes a very nice girl and i would be proud to Kclose or Fclose her.

WHATS the next step in my case?

* after she had that people visiting we didnt get to talk.*

i think i should wait it out and see if she calls me. If she excuses herself for not being able to call me back i was thinking about saying something like this to kinda make fun of women " if you want to make it up for me you will have to take me to dinner this week" and laugh a bit and wait for the reaction. what do you guys think?

No, no, no man!

If she calls, you say, "Make it up to me, treat me to coffee in an hour" or something like it. If you say "this week" that will give the chick time to Flake, or have other friends come over.

i need a dose of hard cold truth. she didnt call after that time when she had friends visiting and i didnt either cause i didnt wanted to look needy or something. should i give it one last ditch effort and go for it? or do i accept my loss and keep walking with my head up high?

by last ditch effort i mean texting her something interesting, i was thinking along the lines of: " you forgot to call back(in a funny way) on monday, you better(maybe other word) make it up to me by taking me to coffee" i get it where i think its right, the translation from spanish messes up some of the message. but its along that line.

that or should i call her again or text more conversation things and drop that in the middle?

I dunno what the other guys are going to tell you, cause you could probably salvage this, but I dont know anything about txt game, or even much about phone game.

I think you shot yourself in the foot from the beginning. "how pathetically bad I did" is setting your self up for failure right there. If she doesn't call back, then SHE did pathetically bad, and thank god you got rid of another girl who is hot but is a Flake, that's one bad apple out of the bin, ya know?

If you can fix this, great, you learned some new stuff, if not, great, now you aren't wasting your time on a flake and you can go grab another hot 10 and see if she earns your respect.

blow her off. no more running after her. keep walking down that rise and looking for the next HB... make her see that other women don't treat you in the unnacceptable manner that she has. she can earn you and then if she is lucky she can make it up to you

what was good is that your first impression obviously lasted a while. you had both of them on first encounter then the clock started ticking down. you cut one loose and the other got away.

the one you gamed may have got an idea of her own so let her keep it her own and if she sees you again she will see you with another hb and she can say I let him get away

i always demonstrate my high value even on days i feel sh1t. keeping my image strong and capable is motivation in itself for when i get those flat spots or depressions. pride in what i do and i love meeting new women and getting their interest

any woman wants to relegate me to the dog box.... sorry sweet heart that aint how you treat a MAN and if you think you do then you haven't had one. no woman does that to me and especially not solely cos she is hot. i aint a chump and i aint a bimbo

mate, if she has taken you off her list, get back to work and chat up another 5 and she will be sniffing around again (although you may have better things on)