how patethically bad i did?

Im in college and since i re-started(after being out 4 years and married) i decided i was going to be popular and met everybody. so far im doing so-so but ive managed to get some girls attention in pretty much every room. so after being separated for 3 months now i have the green light to move along and pick some of this girls that have shown interest in me.

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i met this girl at college while waiting for a class. i was in pain because i had her, a brunnete and a red headed beauty talking to me at the same time. it was hard juggling them both. at the end the oportunity with the red headed went to hell and now ive decided to work a lil harded on picking the brunnette. shes tan and thin and all around beautiful(lets say HB8 since i like my girls thick).

that day when we met she sat at my side and started talking. both girls were competing over me. it was AMAZING. this happened when i was a natural. she started talking a lot with me, asked me some questions and kept talking and touching me in my thighs i also remember seeing her brush her hair.

i tried adding her but she didnt knew me(i always wear my jobs uniform, long sleeves, fine pants ect ect very formal) and rejected. today i was feeling a little bit like a loser and i decided to send her a message. it pretty much said:

" are you from X class? while looking for a friend i stumbled with you and i think you look just like a former classmate. excuse me if you are not"

she responded with:

"yes its me!!!! are you the guy that works at Y? hey how was your grade? i hope it was fine..."

me:

" i had b etc etc grade talk bla bla bla then......... yes im the guy that works at Y and i moved back to H*&(^%(town name) people dont recognize me without uniform.

so how are you? what are you up to?"

her:

"thought you were from here, *grade talk** class talk*

so what clases are you taking this semester?

hey i thought you were from here?"

me:

" grade class talk*

no i was living at I(town) while married(here is where i think i dropped the ball together with all the college and clases talk) completed a contract and now i moved, got a great deal, the room has this and that and that. i was born at R.

taking this clases f, r, y, u, i

what a big message, talking on the phone would be better.....? "

i didnt include my number because i want her to give it to me. i think i have a chance and this last line was done with the intention of pulling a bit into my ballpark so i can talk to her in the phone in a different way. i will turn it around and make it fun. talk about local adventures and wild stuff and get a date!!!


what do you guys think? what i should improve?

First off... too much talk about grades and class. Plus, I think you should have asked her number earlier, and more outright. Something like, "It's so cool to catch up, what's your number, I'll call you!"

I don't get it, did she reply back with her number? or she never replied back at all?

The one thing I wouldn't share with new girls right up front is that you were married. Some girls might see that as a negative. Maybe they'll start wondering why you got divorced, was it your fault, etc. They can find out later about that stuff. Don't risk disqualifying yourself before the girl gets a chance to know you and like you.

Also, I have a bullet proof way of giving your number but also getting the girls number in return. Girls are more likely to give you their number if you give them yours first because it shows them you're comfortable giving out your personal info, which makes them feel comfortable giving theirs out.

So next time I would say...

what a big message...I'm not a fan of extended facebook convos. let's exchange information...(555)5 55-5555...hit me back with yours and maybe I'll give you a call some time.

I think there's a danger in that type of conversation that you'll be talking about grades and class the whole time. I wonder if you got her number or not. Although it was a good Opener since she know you from class, you should find your way out on how to talk about her and not you class and grades.

Honsetly man, you sound sterile, boring and safe. When shes rubbing your thigh, ask her out on an Instant Date right there.

"Hey, lets go get some coffee at x" and then from there get her number. This sounds like an easy pick up for me. I honestly think I would have taken her to get coffee and then back to my house if she was rubbing up and down my thighs, but lets not jump to far out of your Comfort zone.

she replied with the number and being playfull and funny. yes for the experienced this is a sloppy way of picking up. havent done this kind of things in a while. im gonna get showered and im gonna call her maybe text a little. nahh ill call her because i said i didnt wanted to type so much it would be weird. thanks for the replys guys!

one of you said boring..... should i spice things and make it more sexual or something? should i aim to know her better or find a way to set up a date?

Good to know that you have her number. And now it's time to call her and do your game more intense!

man i dont know if shes playing me....... fark. how funny would it be if shes actually playing me, sigh. so i called her and she was fine and funny and was studying so she hanged up and told me she WAS(enfatically) going to call me back. she did i worked hard on steering out of the classes topic until we did and i started moving forward. she started inquiring a bit and seems interested. she received a call and had people going to stop at her house so she told me she was going to call me back as soon as they left. this constant im out of time/very occupied thing could be a trick. shes enfatically saying she will maake time for me... ioi for sure.

anyways i want to set up a date. thats the most reasonable thing to do.