Facebook Flirting

Ok well here is a conversation (all names have been changed) with a girl who I met at a party one night and eventually became Facebook friends, This conversation is mostly all over FB, I hadnt talked to her since the party up until tonight. She lives in the same city as my cousin who often calls me to come party with them, I have only seen her at one party and I opened a set with her and a friend who had a huge crush on me but was now dating one of my good friends (she still wants me haha). I didn't get to talk to her much at all because me and her friend's, the one who likes me, boyfriend who is my good friend, were owning at beer pong. We were on FIRE we won like 30 some games in a row. She eventually left that party and so did I but I ended up in the ER. Lets juts say don't drink out of bottles when you get crazy drunk. But thats another story. About a month or to later I thought Id make an attempt at cultivating the seed of attraction!

The conversation is below. Please feel free to critique it.


Taylor's Status-> DONE WITH SchOOL!!...
9 hours ago · Comment · Like
******* *****, ******* and 4 others like this.

Chuck's comment-> keg stands?
9 hours ago

Shana's comment-> Bahhaha.. that is exactly what you do after completing school.. Keg stands!! You are brilliant!
9 hours ago

Trenton's comment-> congrats tay tay!
9 hours ago

Taylor's comment-> keg stand chuck..i never got to do another one!
9 hours ago

Alexandria's comment-> hahah hell ya taylor..we dominated the keg stands lol..you coming tonight
7 hours ago

Taylor's comment-> yes mam!
7 hours ago

Alexandria's comment-> haha good me too...fun night again man lol we are going be bad girls in *********** lol jk
7 hours ago

Taylor's comment-> yea just cover it up on here with a "jk"
7 hours ago

Alexandria's comment-> haha maybe...SHHHH..our secret lol
6 hours ago

Jerry's comment-> You two realize everyone can see this right?
4 hours ago

My comment-> Where's the party tonight!
4 hours ago ·

Taylor's comment-> zak.............. <--(my name)
2 hours ago

My comment-> taylor............
about an hour ago ·

Taylor's comment-> what makes u think id invite u? ha jp
about an hour ago

My comment-> Its cool I got connections! If your going where I think your going thats family to me haha (The party happened to be at my cousins house)
about an hour ago ·

Taylor's comment-> ha i was going to go ..but i kinda feel like crap so ima save up for the weekend
about an hour ago

My comment-> I decided against going to, its rainy and I dont have my jeep top on so.. its a no go, hit me up this weekend, Ill be partying for sure! But then agian.... why would I invite you? lol
about an hour ago ·

Taylor's comment-> rude.... lol
about an hour ago

My comment-> no appologies
about an hour ago ·

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I then left to take a buddy home who was at my house watching the NBA playoff game on TV with me. When I arrived back at home I had a IM from Taylor. Here is the Instant Message conversation we had right after we had been commenting each others status.

Taylor
next time i see u.......ur getting hurt!

Me
Is that a joke or a threat? I dont know how to respond haha

Taylor
ummm both


Me
haha ok well dont hurt me to bad! How am I supposed to pick up chicks if I get beat up by one..

Taylor
hahahahaha

Me
So how has taylor been?

Taylor
well..good now tht schools out!!...but im sick right now :s

Me
yea well gratz on graduating, surprised you made it! but aw that sucks i hope you get to feeling better. I can make some killer soup. Im a pretty damn good chef

Taylor
well i havent graduated yet...u gonna come watch sunday?
and dayummmm...u can make me soup!!
and i am hungry...(even though i just ate bdubs)
You coming to my graduation?

Me
ha well I doubt it I didnt even go to my ex girlfriends graduation.. haha :P

Taylor
horrible

Me
well, I was on senior trip in florida. But enough about her she cheated and i dont like cheaters haha.. I learned i deserve way way waaaay better and i have high standards now, but that is bad that i missed her graduation.. i felt bad but i had no choice i was in florida

Taylor
haha.ok...what are these high standards

Me
Why would i give my standards away? Then it be easy for a girl to lie so id like her haha

Taylor
oh....ummmmm....
idk

Me
haha
im just playin
But I dno I like smart girls that are fun but still laid back, loyal, kinda good girls but with a lil bit of a bad side haha

Taylor
welll..im screwed..haha jpjp

Me
haha well yea i wasnt gna say anything but.. haha
im just kidding! :P

Taylor
WOOOWWWWW

Me
Im kidding caaalllmm down haha

Taylor
im pretty laid back right now

Me
I know you are! Your a fun person to talk to! So ima go jump in the shower you can text me if ya want or if your still on fb when I get out we can continue our convo?

Taylor
okey dokey ill prob still be on..cuz idk where my phone is at the moment and plus i dont have ur #

Me
well I dont have your number either!

Taylor
god this is horrible.
do u have ******** <--(cell phone provider i dont want to throw out free advertising haha)

Me
yes i do!

Taylor
perfection!

Me
Psh duh! Only the coolest have ***********

Taylor
yea cuz i only have like 500 text for non**********

Me
ok haha im showering for real this time but here is my number.. 555-555-5555
Taylor
ok! shower for reall

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After I showered I noticed she was still on Facebook but I never did message her. About 10 min later I get a text from her saying "Hey! here is my number ;]" So looks like this was a success up to this point. Now I don't know if im going to text her tonight and continue our discussion or wait for the weekend and ask her to a concert.

Like I said before feel free to critique it add what I may have done wrong or how you would have conducted the discussion. Always willing to learn some more tips!

pretty good man. if it were me i would wait for the concert. but more experienced memeberrs may have other opinions. i think txt-ing her same night would saturate it all. you already got her hooked for the time being.

lol idk if you just sent something short and sweet and to the point same night would be good. But ur game was on lock, good negs, good future projection, u showed u have standards (like literally told her lol) and then you showed ur a prize to be won and she needs to chase also. So as far as texting her, i would wait for the concert and then throw game on that. Like make it a neg. "ok so you know who gets to come feed me grapes and fan me with a big leaf at a concert. Yup its you. So slave are you availiable this weekend" or some other stuff like this. but yeah nothing really jumped out at me, i found your game to be pretty solid

Thanks for the input its nice having positive reinforcement like that! I ended up texting her one text letting her know I received her text and saved her number. The concert is this weekend and I have plenty of tickets, I know the band performing fairly well. I don't know if I am going to ask her yet though. I was planning on partying pretty hard that night so I don't know if its a good idea to have her there or not. Ill try and keep everyone up to date on what went down.

even if u do want to party hard see how she handles herself around you and ur friends. but then give her a playful warning when u start feeling tipsy like "i dont want to scare you or anything but i wanted to have fun and drink a little, so i apologize now for the crazy and fun night ahead of us :P" something like that. it takes all responsibility out of ur hands and it sees how she will take it when u guys party around friends

I ended up having a party at my place last night and she came. I worked perfect game, NAILED her on that guess a number between 1-4 blah blah blah ESP trick. I answered both numbers she was thinking correctly!

Well at the end of the night she was in my bed sleeping with me, She said no sex before we went up to my room and I was fine with that I want to get to know her a little more. But she gets on my computer and starts looking at my facebook n what not asking me questions about my past n shit and I was taking them as ioi's and then she saw my guitar and was like can you play "Ill Be", I dont know it all yet so I just said no and then she goes o well I would MELT if you could play it. So I was thinking oh great I wish I knew that damn song haha. But anyways we get into bed and I get a phone call from a buddy who was still at my house so I went outside to let him in and when I went back to my room she wasnt there. This confused the shit out of me and I dont know how to take it. She ended up going and sleeping with her friend. Does she not like me? Is it just because she thought I was going to try something on her without her being comfortable.. I cant figure it out..

lol no she likes you but you should have let her mess around and then went over and starting kissing and making out and then picking her up by her ass and then laying her on the bed but then reassuring her that it is just kissing and bam no resistance and then she starts getting in the mood and you fark. she was probably just sitting there thinking, what am i doing and ended up leaving your room...its all good just neg her for it next time you see her but do it playfully and then say i cant believe you cant control yourself in my bede..u didnt have to leave though..just sit there and try and handle it.

take off of facebook into the phone and as soon as you are there dont go back. dont get all over her, let her miss you too.

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