Facebook game plan comments please

I met an HB in a bookstore a while ago, last last Saturday and I added her on facebook via the e-mail she gave me. So I decided to game her.

I met her in a relationship section of the bookstore and here is what I sent her:

Me: Seeing you at the relationship section in the bookstore made me think you're a relationship expert. My friend has a relationship problem, perhaps you could give some advice?

HB: I thought I were but I am not actually. If i were an expert, I shouldn't be reading books there alone...lol...I was seeking help over the section...just like u only pray to God when u suffer but not always when u are having a good time...=|...well, u look more like an expert n u should give me advice..haha. But it is also alright if u share yr friend's problem to me cos may be i have experienced before...or whatever..=)

This is our conversation so far. It seems as though she's investing.

Here is my plan to reply onwards:

Me:Well, a friend of mine is really into his female co-worker. He told me that he has written many letters to this lady and hopes to win her over, but the problem is she has never replied. He wanted to write her another letter because he believes that females appreciate that gesture. But I think that it's not a good idea because that would come off as creepy. What do you advise?

HB: Replies

Me: Maybe a tease or something based on her reply. Nothing too C&F as she seems to have LSE (low-self esteem). Show some gratitude...(reward her for her investment). Perhaps ask her what her problems are as she's mentioned in her reply to me "u look more like an expert n u should give me advice..haha"

HB:replies

Me: Fluff

HB: fluff

Me: Qualify get her # set up a Day2 under the pretense of talking about relationships in person?

This is hypothetical and things are not as predictable. But this is my outline so far. Please comment.

throw it out there and lets see what she responds with

She replied with:

No way. He absolutely shouldn't write her another one. I am reading a relationship book called "He's just not that into you" n i think it is the same to female. She's not responding if she's just not that into him. So, what i am suggesting him to do is either giving up or changing another method to approach her. Writing letters is only a single way of communication. U neva know what she is thinking n feeling. I think women in the 21st centuries are more interested in men have guts. Why not tell her straightly dat he likes her?? ask her out to dinner or something. May be he will find something he doesn't like about her during dating, or may be she starts to feel interest in him when they go out n talk more. Who knows?!

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Which is quite lengthy and seems as though she's investing quite a bit. Which is good, but perhaps it doesn't mean other than she is just trying to help.

Now, I'm thinking of redirecting the question at her. For instance:

Well done with your response. It was quite insightful. [Rewarding her effort, getting her motivated about investing] I agree that he could spill the beans and let the female know that he is interested in her but I doubt that it works for every female. It's like giving ones power away. Would you appreciate it if a guy told you he liked you?


This is what I'm thinking of but it is just Fluff talk..it's kind of just a way to keep the conversation going...

Ok I think you need to push this along a bit more then you are with your last post. LET IT BE KNOWN: I am not the best on this forum on text game and facebook, crob is great at this stuff, I am just trying to learn at his feet here.

Try something like calling her out on her women want a more direct man stuff. neg her about it. Say something like Yeah you say that but as soon as a guy walks up to you and is all direct women run for the hills. Then follow up with something playful and if she bites on that and chases after you saying something like yeah maybe some girls but not me blah blah blah, then your in. At that point it would be a solid hook point where she is truly investing and then you can work her more on qualification and start to give some Escalation to the interaction.

Like I said lets see what crob says here, but this is similar to what I would do in the field.

i actually agree with tcomea here. and your right as well. she is investing somewhat but not investing in you. she is investing in the advice. best way is to bring her back in and neg/dhv some. you did good with resuming your opener but now you want to transition and naturally build rapport and Comfort. this actually set you up for some rolepaying. one you might be familiar with and one that you wouldnt have to mask. haha i have never tried this but since i just thought about it i might. try roleplaying like a guy (pua) approaching a girl and being direct and pretty much act it out. this allows you to neg, build comfort/rapport, build Sexual Tension, and then be different and playful.

Her:No way. He absolutely shouldn't write her another one. I am reading a relationship book called "He's just not that into you" n i think it is the same to female. She's not responding if she's just not that into him. So, what i am suggesting him to do is either giving up or changing another method to approach her. Writing letters is only a single way of communication. U neva know what she is thinking n feeling. I think women in the 21st centuries are more interested in men have guts. Why not tell her straightly dat he likes her?? ask her out to dinner or something. May be he will find something he doesn't like about her during dating, or may be she starts to feel interest in him when they go out n talk more. Who knows?!

Me: woah woah there crazy pants!! i think thats a total lie. i have tried it. not really a winner!! :P just like in the movie Hitch. you can never go up to a girl and say I LIKE YOU. thats against the rules!

Her: oh whatever it works sometimes!

Me: no way. thats crazy!! so lets say im a guy off the street and we talk and boom i drop that line. what would you do?!? no lies either, i can tell your one of those girls!!

i mean i could probably make it better but thats this jist. dont qualify yourself or need approval and dont directly ask her like your into her. just play the role. and make sure you keep it light and always let your intention be known by proper textanese. haha