I personally treat facebook game like i do text game. I dont really send messages because girls can easily forget or ignore that. I facebook game through the facebook IM. and i treat it just like i do text game.
As a matter of fact, i gamed a girl just yesterday on facebook. A little background. I am 21. SO high school wasnt too long ago for me. I went to high school with this girl. never really talked to her in high school and never hung out. I was practically a nerd in high school but this girl had it dialed in just right. Popular, hot and always doing something. Well being that it is that i learned game. I saw her at the club the other night. I didnt really game her, just winged in my AFC friend with her girlfriend and we talked for a couple minutes. i was wearing a pokerstars track jacket and she ended up pointing it out thinking i was really good or something and then said she was good and nobody could read her. Well theres my opening nickname. Ok then we started talking and we all got into this thing because they recognized me but dont remember and i asked them if they went to mesa and i knew we all graduated together but didnt want to be creepy so just played it cool. and after a while they just left. I had no real intention on gaming them at all even though i was getting IOI's from them. my main goal was have fun with the boys and get wasted.
Ok so last night i ended up seeing her online and took a look at her profile. and yeah i already had her as facebook friends. whenever i see someone i have lots of mutual friends with i just send them a friend request. But i saw her on and then decided she was fun and pretty damn attractive so i would try gaming her.
my opener was a simple as an AFC message but with some twists.
"hey there poker pro. wierd running into you the other night. Not causing any trouble tonight are you?
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then just started doing just normal game. talk for a minute, see whats going on. neg her a little and tease. then start getting silly, and cocky funny. then roleplay a little, do some future projections for meeting up and then just have fun and Number Close with plans for a meet up. those are my usual rough guidelines that i have come to create. But yeah you dont need anything to intense. just something different and fun that she will likely respond to. so you could try something as simple as
"hey stalker pants. its a little wierd running into you. are you following me? lol jk What kind of trouble/ruckus/mischeif do u plan on causing today?!?
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simple an easy. you dont need a perfect opener you just need to know how to have a fun convo. i can quarantee she will respond from what u have told me, but what i cannot guarantee is that you guys will go past the first convo. you need to get her attraction and curiosity up to wonder about you