Another From Real-Life To Facebook Part 2

Hi guys, it's been awhile since I posted something here. So here it goes.

About a month ago I met a HB9 while I was on a trip in Egypt. I'll try to detail as much as I can. It started something like this :

It was a stupid game show night at the hotel that I was staying. No need to get into too many details here. After the show, they put on some music, and while I was fired up, I started dancing on the stage while everybody was at their table. So I minded my own business on the stage, dancing like crazy ( I have a female friend who taught me some awesome dance moves ). All of a sudden everybody was cheering and applauding when I did something "special" and kinky. As some of the people started clapping with the rhythm of the music, I took the opportunity to make everybody clap their hands. So they did. After 2 songs I got off the stage and went back to my table. Few minutes later, some guys who had a table in front of the stage invited me over for a drink ( they were Russians, btw ). So I started talking to a guy who knows English well.

After a few minutes, a girl wanted to take a picture of me and after that she said in Russian that I'm a very beautiful man. She was hot, but didn't know English if her life depended on it, so moving on. Again I started talking to the guy that knew English and after 20 min, a stunning HB9 approached me with the pretense of "practicing her English"...keep in mind she was at that table and I didn't notice her at all until that moment. We started talking, we hit it off very well. Clearly interested in me :

- her body was oriented towards me, whilst mine was oriented in another direction
- ROCK SOLID eye contact
- While I was talking, she would constantly look at my lips with her mouth open

She wanted me to teach her some dancing moves. I did, but bogus moves, since I'm not giving my secrets away THAT easy ) ( I kept that thought to myself, though... ) )

Anyway, some semi-intimate Kino commenced ( she was a bit reluctant at this point so I backed out from for the time being....mainly was going for the kiss at this point ).

She said she was tired and wanted to go to her room, so I took her to her room holding hands ( she was quite comfortable with the idea at this point ). We got close to her room, we hugged, she told me I smell good ( even though she said she didn't like the cologne that I was wearing ) and a very short kiss. Didn't want to push it further, so I called it a day.

The next day we met at the restaurant. I really don't remember much about this encounter, but since I was eating, I didn't paid too much attention to her.

Night-time comes and I went on the terrace again....crap magic show, bla bla bla.

Then one of the guys at the table came and asked where the girl was. He told me she was sick in her room. As I was sick too, I knew what the thing was about. Went to her room and had a very very nice time together, she opened up, told me more about herself without me having to ask any questions. I gave her some medicine I had for myself and after 30 min she started to feel better. So we went shopping for some junk food. There were some creepy looking guys outside the store, so I said "Stay close to me" she replied with "Yes daddy". Anyway we bought some stuff and at the counter she gave me a chocolate bar she bought for me.

We got back from the store, stayed about 5 more minutes, kissed with her ( initiated by her, I was reluctant because her roommate was there for the entire time ). Then we went outside for a few minutes, kissed and said goodbye, took her contact details and left.

Now, I had to leave the next day for home. I knew she was staying another week there, so didn't make my move yet ( adding her on Facebook ), except for putting a note outside her door telling her that we will see eachother soon.

Anyway, we talked for a bit since then. When she got home, and a few times after that. She also invited me to her hometown, exact quote being "If you wanna come, I'll always be happy to see you". ( she is russian, i'm not obviously...2000 miles apart ) So I said yes.

A few days later after no contact, I've sent her 2 Facebook messages ( 4 days apart from one another ) straight from Braddock's Text game book and adapted to the situation ( pinging ). She responded well, saying that she is so sorry that she couldn't talk, she was busy with some things and she has to move from her current apartment. Then she invited me again ( this time she said if I could come in March ) so I said yes.

Now, I MIGHT have farked up a bit on this one. I told her "we'll talk about this after March 15 ( so I'll get to know you better )". Next day, I've told her that I was intending on coming exactly on March 15 ( because of a certain rock concert I wanted to see there ) then 2 days later canceled and told her I would be coming on March 24, because I got tickets to somewhere closer than where she lives and that it was more convenient for me this way.

Now, the thing is I did not get any sort of answer from her. While I did see her online on Facebook for like a few minutes a few days ago, no message back, but pinged another message the next day.

She DID say that she was busy with the apartment thing and that we will talk more often as soon as she gets this settled. That was like two weeks ago.

Now, how do you guys see this? I want some feedback.

Forget about trying to make the visit about her. Make it about you. Go to the concert. Let her know you'll be in the area. and invite her along. make no bones about whether she is there or not.

Don't ask about the apartment. Don't ask ANYTHING about WHY she has been unresponsive. It isn't necessary for you to learn about it. You have separate live, they just crossed paths.

If you make the trip and don't connect, tell her a story after you get back about what an amazing time you had (do not say you wished you could have seen her, or that you're sorry you missed connections). dhv story.

Otherwise, move on with your life. She is 2000 miles away. Periodically drop her a line to stay in touch.

Thanks for the reply, dude

The trip IS going to be about me, since I said that I'll be going to the concert somewhere much closer to me than where she live ( a different country than mine and hers, I forgot to add that, my bad ).

Even if I go to her country and visit her, it'll still be about me. I'll have my own fun and great times, with or without her. If she invites me to stay at her place, even better, it's the best of both worlds.

I agree on the advice about not asking about why she didn't respond. It'll give her the chance to qualify herself to me.

Geography isn't neither my issue, her issue or even an issue at all, here. If this turns out to get into a LDR and LTR, I'm fine with it and I am totally confident about this whole thing. Of course, this doesn't mean that I should stop seeing other HB's until something serious is going on between me and her.

Again, thank you for the advice. And I'm still open to suggestions and feedback as to where it went wrong especially on the facebook part.

I think knowing the timing and frequency isn't really enough to analyze the success of your electronic communications with her. Would have to see exactly what you wrote and what she wrote back in sequence.

It's looooong.

Her ( February 7 at 9:28pm ):

Hiiiii,I just logged in to add you and you have added me already ( smiley face ))))
we came back on saturday,oooo I miss Egypt so bad!!!!
how have you been?

Me ( February 8 at 1:06am ):

Hi, there. I've been pretty much awesome ever since I got back from Egypt. Very pumped up and soooooo not wanting to get back to work . I hope you're coping well with your grandmother's passing. If there's anything I can do to help you with that, just ask me and I'll do whatever I can to ease the pain.

Onto more happy topics, now. I got back on this Saturday too ( kind of a long story, I'll write all about it tomorrow, since now I'm kinda sleepy and don't have the patience nor the desire to write that much ). Long story short, my passport got stolen at the airport the day I was supposed to leave Egypt and instead my wish came true : I stayed for another week in Egypt. For free You can hate me all you want, now :P

Anyway, we should meet up on Skype for a cybercup of cybercoffee :P . I'm free Thursday night. Say 8:30 pm ? ( Your time, not mine. 8:30 to you is 7:30 to me ). Does that sound good to you ?

Cyber-kisses :*:*:* ( callback humor )

PS : I love the dress in your profile picture. Very stylish, kicky, somewhat breezy and fits you well... I had bedsheets that looked almost like that :P:P:P

Her ( February 11 at 11:55pm ):

Hi,( my name ) ( exagggerated wink ) sorry for not responding that long,the first time in my life I didn't want to pay for the inthernet,corse didn't want to use it after Egypt.it's - 20 here!!!!!!freeeezing !!!I don't have skype yet,I will try to download that tonight,to be honet I don't like it..
why you never came to our hotel?
Thanks(for compliments))we have some pictures of you,I'll sent to your e-mail later
I'm great after this vacation ,so many nice emotions,so strange,probably it was my best vacation,even better,than in Miami
if you ever wonna come to ( her home town ),I'll always be happy to see you))))))))))))))) ))))))))

Me ( February 12 at 12:40am ):

Hey, there. I'm glad that you felt great in Egypt. Just think of me and you'll get warm :P

Well, I don't like Skype either, so let's not use it and we'll talk like this...or e-mail...or whatever.

Well, I did thought to come to our hotel. but first thing's first, here's the whole story so you'll see where I'm coming from ( It's a very long story, so brace yourself ) :

After we packed our bags I put my passport in the back pocket of my jeans. When we arrived at the airport, I checked my pants to see if it was there, but of course it wasn't. I checked under the seats, between the seats and basically every single seat on the row that I was sitting. Even the driver offered to look for it, and here's the tricky part : After I told the driver I've lost my passport, he offered to look. I did saw something cherry-red way in the back and I thought if that's the passport, then the driver will give it back to me. But he didn't. After that I got off the bus and went straight to the information desk to see what I can do to get on that plane. After this it was basically back and forth from terminal 1 to terminal 2 for like 4 times ( 10 min each time, so that was like 40 mins just walking ).

Anyway, after I talked to the airport manager and airport general and everything was OK for me to get on that plane, got all the papers that I needed, the check-in was closed. My plane was supposed to leave at 14:20 and I got there at 14:25.

So you can just imagine how I felt when I saw the plane took off. But I just had to pull myself together. I talked again with the airport manager and a guy from the tour operator and they told me that there won't be any plane from the resort to my hometown for another MONTH ( because of the riots ). And I almost completely freaked out. I had no money left, not a single form of ID, no roaming on my cell phone, no place to stay, no internet, NOTHING.

At this point I had 4 options :

1) Go to a mosque and ask for shelter
2) Go back to our and ask the management if I can stay there and in exchange for a room I'll wash, cook, be a maid, anything.
3) Sleep at the airport
4) Go back to our and come to you to see if you'll let me stay at your place until everything's taken care of.

BUT...The Tour Operator manager booked a room for me...I thought anything will do just fine, even the staff only rooms.

When I got there, I was amazed. It was a 5 star resort and I was booked all inclusive in their biggest apartment. And it was all for free. I only paid the plane ticket back home.

Meanwhile the tour operators found my passport, some Russian tourists found it in the bus. I think the driver took the passport and he thought that he'd make himself a deal by giving me my passport in exchange for $20 or something.

Anyway, all is good now, so...

I'll consider coming to ( her home town ). And the same goes to you if you ever want to come to ( my hometown ). You'll stay at my place, if you want. But we need to get to know each other a little better first. I'm not that easy :P:P

Well, that's about it for now. Again, I'm really glad that you had a great time in Egypt. Talk to you soon.

Oh, about that : let me know when we can chat from now on. I'll let you know this Sunday when and how I'm available from now on.

That's it for now.

PS. I can't wait to see the pictures :P

Her ( February 12 at 1:46am ) :

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!THA'S CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!I'm glad everything worked out well for you,corse this story is really crazy.and it's so cool you got one more week vacation for free
I'm working on sunday and'll be home around 12,so we'll see,ok?
I'm tired,going to sleep already.talk to you soon.good night,sweet dreams ))))))

Me ( February 13 at 8:25pm ):

I didn't meant to say that we'll talk this Sunday, I meant I'll give you a message this Sunday with my schedule to let you know when I'm available to talk from now on. And here it is ( for this week ):

Monday and Tuesday I'll be working very very late so chances are slim that I'll have a computer nearby other than the studio's computer ( which has no internet connection ).

I'll be available Wednesday and Thursday from 7 PM till 2 AM for sure. 110% sure.

I can't guarantee that I'll be available this Friday, it's a 50/50 chance. If I'll be available, it's from 7 PM till 2 AM too.

Saturday nights I'm always out, so that's out of the question. But during the day, I get off from work at 1 PM, so I'm available usually from 2 PM until 8 PM.

Sundays I'm available all day until 2 AM

And in general, I'm available every day of the week from 7 PM until 2 AM, except for Fridays ( available very rarely ) and Saturdays, which I'm available from 2 PM until 8 or 9 PM.

That doesn't mean that you can't send e-mails or Facebook messages. I'll just respond to them very late.

I'd appreciate it if you could give me your schedule, so that I'll know when we can chat.

OK, sweetcheeks, I gotta go and get ready for Guys Night Out with my guys. Beers, nachos and a sh1tload of fun and laughter, here I come!!!!

Talk to you soon. Bye :*

Her ( February 19 at 12:07am ):

Hiiii)))))I'm sos orry,but I'm dead busy with looking for new apartment,I rent,and on tuesday I have to leave from this one and move to....don't know yet where...because it's really a problem to find it here,it's almost impossible to find without realtors and with their help it's also very complicated!!!!!and I study 5 days a week and work 2 days on weekends....uf..
don't get mad on me,please,as soon as I move I'll have a lot more time
sometimes I'm on my way to response and something interrupt me and I forget
ooou,so nothing much new happened with me these days,course of my stuff with apt.It's dead cold in here -25..!!!!
do you remember the company you were with the night we met?Tthey all come to ( her home town ).

Her ( February 19 at 12:09am ):

They all come here in march,if you also could that would be awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!
my friend ( her roommate from Egypt ) says hello to you
I'm really glad we met and really want to c u again)))))))
goood night!!sweet dreams)))))))))))) )xoxoox))))))

Me ( February 20 at 11:27pm ) :

The Russian guys at the table in front of the stage? Sweet.

It really depends when in March exactly. If it's after March 15, that's cool and I can come to ( her home town ). We'll talk more about this from Tuesday onward.

Huh...-25 ??? Damn, that's awful. 0 degrees here. "Boxer shorts and T-shirt" weather here compared to ( her home town ). And snowing beautifully. :X

For Katya : Привет, девочка ! Как поживаешь ? ( Bet you didn't see this one coming, eh? :P Знать один язык недостаточно....fore ign language, that is :P )

As for the apartment, I'll send some of my endless luck to you so you'll find exactly what you're looking for or even more than that. I have a feeling your future apartment is somewhere close to something fun and with a great view of the city. And for an bargain rent price. Удачи ! Ни пу́ха, ни пера ! ( Bet you didn't see this one coming either :P )

Not much has happened here either. Except a new guy came in at my workplace ( at the insurance company, not the EU funds one ). He became good friends with me and another guy from work and all you can hear now in the office is hilarious laughter absolutely all the time.

That's it for now. Talk to you on Tuesday.
Спокойной ночи

Me ( February 22 at 10:13pm ) :

Hey, me again.

You'll be very happy to know that I might come to ( her hometown ) sooner than you'd expect, that being exactly on March 15.

I just found out today that two of my all-time favorite bands, Slayer and Megadeth are playing a concert together at ( venue, city, country, date , bla bla bla) and I'd REALLY LOVE...no, no...DYING to see them again. Especially in ( her home town ) :P

Of course, this is just at the "wishing" stage of things at the moment, because it all really depends on how things are going on these next few weeks at work and a lot of other stuff. But I'll do whatever it takes to sort things out at work so that I'll be there on March 15 and you should keep your fingers crossed so that I can come then !

Anyway, how's your new apartment ? Talk to you soon, sweetcheeks. xoxoxo



And that's it for now....can't seem to find the other 2 messages I've sent her. Anyway, the messages were straight out of Braddock's book ( adjusted to the situation ) and told her why I canceled. And that's it.

bump

Nevermind, she answered

sorry man. I'm not getting forum notifications for some reason, so I never saw anything on this. Read it all. hard to gauge. curious how it went response-wise.

Beyond all expectations . She tried to txt me for 2 days straight, i received her texts but because of my cell phone provider, i couldn't text back. so SHE got worried instead . after that, i sent her a mail, i moved the discussion on facebook chat ( farking spicy stuff ). All's well....beyond my expectations, again.