BEST OPENER ON FB

I put this in the online section but i thought it should be better in the FB section

every time i give a girl a complement on facebook it works only when i complement her clothes or energy she gives in her picture

that's the best Opener i found that gives me a good one on one messege conversation with a girl

i just have to figure out how to transition from there to a date

This also applies to real in person.. I sometimes use a compliment on clothes or hair style as an Opener, (it isn't my main opening), but it does intrigue girls. They look at you differently that moment on because you aren't saying, "Omg your picture is so HOT, your bod is great." You aren't one of the usual guys at that moment.

For instance, girl at Barnes and Noble had cute short hair. I complimented her hair, said it looked nice short. She put on the biggest smile.
Another example... I am at a house party, girl had this weird looking outfit on but I liked it. It was almost 80's retro but with a today vibe. I went up to her and said... "I really like your style" (referring to her clothes)
That same night, when I was leaving the house party, she came up to me and asked me where I was going, told her to a bar, and she came.

I would compliment a girls sense of style. It truly is a great compliment because how long do girls take on getting ready to go out. HOURS.
So rather than telling them are hot, tell them their style is hot, or nice or you enjoy it

I totally agree with Hyde. Think of a time when someone random has came up to you and given you a random compliment. If it's genuine it can make a persons day and keep them smiling. Genuine compliments win, every time.

Transitioning to a date is easy. Control the conversation. Get to know her. Make her want you.

Eh, tried this. Didn't work for me.

Practice more and it will work
When you compliment they'r style you need to mean it,don't just use it to get in they'r pants.....women notice it

I am going to be perfectly honest here...I couldn't disagree more. Do women like to be compliemented? Yes. Should we use that as an opener? Hell No. I did notice that you mentioned complimenting something that was at least other than her over all beauty. This is always a step in the right direction, but I do disagree.
The problems I see with this theory are many but also can be broken down into one simple statement. By doing this, you do what every woman expects to hear; and what every other man in the world says to her on a daily basis. We are talking about a hb 9 or so I am assuming...I mean we are PUA's here (well supposed to be) - meaning there is no reason to be picking up any other type...when approaching a HB, she will be expecting the same old routine (she gets it, she's beautiful) regardless of how meaningful you make it. This is one of the reasons why you never compliment a girl on her beauty or style, you compliment an inattimate object like her shoes. This is why we neg them (your nose wiggles when you laugh), to make them realize we don't find them that attractive. Look, the best way I can explain this is as follows....I call this the Pitch Freeze Out...whenever I am somewhere and there is a set I want to approach, I ALWAYS pick up the fat/ugly/less attractive one in the set first. ALWAYS. This will keep the ugly one from thinking she's a third wheel in a set and becoming a CB, actually, she'll fight to keep you around because she's not used to attention. At the same time, the HB who is always used to guys approaching, will wonder why you are the only man in the room who hasn't offered to buy her a drink while complimenting her on her beauty and ignoring the fat one. It will drive her crazy to the point where she will start trying to get your attention. Whenever the HB in this situation tries to get my attention, I usually throw a couple negs at her before I begin to transition over to the HB. This will not only confuse/upset her even more but it will make the less attractive one more acceptable to the idea of you and the HB spending some time alone in a few minutes. Remember, the idea here is to be unpredictable. You must keep girls on their toes, keep them confused, while at the same time letting them think they have a little control over the situation. The minute a girl thinks she has you figured out she's bored. This is why we run routines; this is why we do freeze outs; this is why we do neg hits. All of these theories are proven ways to do one thing, throw her off her balance...then we add value, and so on. The only way to get rid of a woman's first thought in her head "who is this guy, what does he want, how long until he goes away" is to be NOT like every other AFC.

Pitch

What about mixing a compliment with some negging ? Ex. giving a compliment on what she likes or says, but negging on her looks. That could be a way to establish some connection but not as a potential suitor. And it should attract her curiosity.

This is going to sound absolutely ridiculous, but what the hell, (this is 100% true by the way)

So we all know each individual person has there own way of playing things. I personally dont like diving straight in with a compliment (it raises her esteem and she may feel above my league etc etc)

Anyway, i thought i'd try this out on a girl i had been interested in for a while. NOTE- choose your target before using this, otherwise you will look like a weirdo...

'Me and a mate are having a debate. Who would win in a fight, a bear, or a lion?'

Anyway to cut a long story short, she responded VERY well (i got her number and a meet next week with her).

Let me know what you guys think- all critque welcome

sarge

Yeah ive found that complimenting a girl on her hair, like say shes just changed the colour of her hair saying that it looks nice does work better than just saying that she looks hot its worked a few times for me, i think its because women spend a lot of time and care for their hair so they like to know that their effort is noticed