A simple Facebook opener i use

This is a simple fb Opener i use before i send a friend request to her. I don't know someone else use this kind of messaging before adding her as a friend, i use this because there is no guarantee that she id going to accept my friend request!


Me: Heyy, i think yu knw my friend!
(obviously, i may not know some one she is friends with)
she may reply with something lyk
Her: who?/ i don't think so / which friend??/ do i know you? / something else

i may reply sumthing lyk
me: I'm not sure if its you, but, he told you are from (i use scul or college name that she is not studying in)

her: no, I'm not, u have mistaken!


Me: yaa, but hey, u seem funny/cool, we can be friends, I'm gonna add you
(or some thing like that message,
i want to be on her friendslist first)

What is the success rate on this? Does it work?

I'm not a huge fan of using facebook as a pick up environment. That's just my personal opinion and preference. But I have read and known people who do use it. So the best of luck to you, and if it works, hell, keep doing you.

idk about the success rate on that. it seems ok but any girl can see that you have the intention of hitting on them. so its probably high risk high reward Opener. keep it up.

Many of the girls will reply with something. idk abt that. what i care about is that she responds. coz, i am asking sumthing that any other average guy dosent ask her.

mine: "ewwwww!!!"

her: "???" or "ewww what?"

me: "(add obersvational conversation starter here)

imnot sure how successful that'd be, i always play the long term game on facebook. start like it was an accident

her:do i know you
me:yeah we met last night! that was alot of fun! you can dance quite well!
her:think you got the wrong person(or something similer)
me:eh? oh sorry you didnt give me your last name just told me to add you, but we met through friends so i added you cause of teh mutual friend thing, shame guess that means your ash1t dancer"
her: its ok
me: your dancing is ok? come on dont be ashamed to be vein

if she carries on with something like

her :no i mean its ok you added me
try
me:yeah i assumed thats why we've kept talking! come on keep up! this is ment to be asocial network lets that social side!
or

me:hey how you doing! you were wasted last night
her: do i know you
then carry on as you were!

not sayimg mine are better just i think your open leaves abit to much an opening, i mean it went well but after the "but you seam funny cool etc" bit its not really sealed the deal if she replies as you said it really doesnt seam like she would be any more liekly to add you then jsut randomly adding her int he fisrt place, other then now she knows she doesnt know you.

Agree with bradder!
I usually keep this funny or accidental.
When i tell her she knw my friend, that makes her curious, and i keep it twisting like
me: '' if that is you, she told that u r cool/something lyk that''
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hey Pierrot,,
i just used your EEWWW Opener
me:ewwwww
her:Ew you.
me:ahh! that was embarassing..
i thought yu had the wrong finger up!
(she actually had a profile pic with her index finger up!)

great job and thanks for trying it.
my goal is to attain her attention, carrying on the conversation is just the next bridge to cross- is the way i see it.

But you want women to know you're hitting on them, they like it! Guys, remember this - women like to be hit on. They just don't like to be hit on by AFC's.