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How To Pick Up Women

. Use these Proven Seduction Routines & Techniques to Dramatically Improve your Success with Women and Dating.
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Old 11-26-2011, 02:52 AM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

I have read up on some of mysteries "neg" techniques and I feel as if they would be effective during a set involving a 9-10. After all, these girls are so used to being fawned over that they are not used to their self confidence being called into question. negging may come off as immature in some situations, but in my experience, if done correctly, it shows the girl that you are not intimidated. Being new to the community, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.


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Old 12-06-2011, 04:29 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

I am SUPER SHY!!! Like shyer than Shy Guy in Mario... but a switch flipped off in me in the past month that just said "fark it" just do it man. 10 years from now you will be better that you took that chance you are shy about now. You only live once, its easier said than done... I thought but until you do it, its a piece of cake!


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Old 01-18-2012, 03:17 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

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I made a crucial mistake; I thanked her for ringing my order up (D'oh!). Her eyes suddenly went from Hello! - to WTF do you want?

Just thought I'd tell the story so others can learn from it too.
Does anyone else think that's not a mistake? I think it just makes her look like a bitch...


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Old 01-27-2012, 09:23 AM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

Start slow. start by just saying hi hows it going to girls and once you're comfortable with that, then step up your game!


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Old 02-08-2012, 06:37 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

I really need someone to encourage me on approaching people. Someone to push me when we go out to the club/bar at night or during day game. I can't seem to push myself.


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Old 02-08-2012, 07:31 PM
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I really need someone to encourage me on approaching people. Someone to push me when we go out to the club/bar at night or during day game. I can't seem to push myself.
You could try to imagine that you're going to meet someone you haven't seen in a long time, and that you're happy to see them. It works for me. *shrugs*


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Old 02-24-2012, 12:28 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

Do you have to ask for the number with every approach? What if you work out at a gym and see her all the time, can you just introduce yourself and ask later?


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Old 03-07-2012, 05:15 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

I"m terrible at talking to women and I'm extremely shy. I just dont know what to say or how to be funny alot of the time if I'm able to gather the courage to say hi. The conversation dies pretty quickly. haha


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Old 03-08-2012, 03:52 PM
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Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

Shyness is a lack of practice at being confident


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