Game Rules - How to have a good night, every night.

These are my rules for how to have a great night. I always try to follow these guidelines, and when I do everything seems to go pretty well. When I do have a random bad night I find that I can sometimes trace it back to not following one of these rules in my game. This understanding will usually help me have the proper frame.

My Rules -

1. Set your success criterion when going out as just going out. Plain and simple nothing more nothing less. Go out and you are successful.

2. Vocal warm ups. Warm up your voice. Sing in your car and warm your voice up, really open it up full full force. Personally I have to top out my voice, singing a song and getting extremely amped up. This warms it up for me to be able to project really well in venues where the music is insanely loud.

3. Pump your own state with craziness. Act like a hot 10. Being in the moment and pump your state using only your emotional brain not your logical one. Talk silliness to your wing just let your brain flow.

4. Open right away on the street but most important get in the venue and keep opening. Talk only to new groups of people immediately in the venue. This will get you on a social roll. (read this article on Fun PUA Openers for more tips).

5. Infringe on other peoples space with your voice and tonalityt. This will bump your state and your attraction in set and from near by sets.

6. Stay in the venue when you get on a roll. Use the momentum to not give a fark. Ride the wave up.

7. Be on your own, open on your own, thrive on your own. Open groups and let your wing come in after you have hooked and locked in then he can get on your wave.

Negative Frame: Do not be wing man dependant. We can not save each other. Support does not work. Your wing will suck up your state and his crappy time can suck your state. The one that is in a flow has to open and lock in to a set and hook it then the wing can come in and get in conversation.

8. Stay in the moment and push forward keep the momentum. Keep a clear mind.

Negative Frame: Never talk game, think game or analyze game in the field.

9. Stay out until the end of the night. This builds up your tolerance to the nightlife.

10. Keep to the rules, practice them and reflect on them.

11. Re frame your bad night into a good night. Just think of one thing that you did that you haven?t done before. One place you pushed your edge in a new way. Then bam your crappy night will become a good night of learning.

That is solid advice. I also think getting some 1on1 coaching and seeing someone who has overcome their shyness is very valuable.

Nice list man. I really like #7 & the negative frame behind it, approaching large groups solo can make you AMOG. Only suggestion I would say is always smile Thanks for notes!

I like most pointers here, and would say that it's good advice to start with. The only one I don't totally agree with due to thinking of the context of a situation is number 5.
The negative frames are very insightful and helpful too.

Very useful. Thanks.
btw. #5 --> just start yelling? XD

Awesome list! Thanks for posting this!

Don't know if I would agree. Going out should be something done 3 or 4 times a week. By setting yourself such a high bar for going out, it can be disruptive to the rest of your life, especially if you have to wake up early and work. I like to hit up bars and clubs on the week, maybe with just one friend for a beer, then leave by 10 or 11. I find this builds your tolerance up a bit so you are used to the social interactions that go and become more in tune with them.

I agree with CTLair. Better to go out 6 nights a week for 3 hours than twice a week for 9 hours...

I think the biggest part of being successful in the game is getting in the Mindset that you know that you won't fail, and making yourself believe that any girl who is going to spend the night with you..for her it is a privledge. Before you can make anyone else believe in you, you have to believe in yourself 100%

Exactly.

As my mentor Christian from The Social Man taught me, it is about giving yourself PERMISSION to talk to, date, sleep with, and have a relationship with amazingly hot women. For some reason, we do not give ourselves permission to be with these women. You must learn to allow yourself to be successful...