10 Sizzling Reasons To Become A PUA

Hey - I saw someone suggest that we make a thread for the top 10 reasons to become a Pick Up Artist. I will start.

1. You will become more social, and feel comfortable in many social situations that you possibly were afraid of before becoming a PUA. This includes parties, bars, clubs and even professional environments. Your overall confidence will grow and your social awareness will increase making you a much more interesting person.

(who is next?)

2. Becoming an Pick Up Artist builds the confidence needed to not only approach women but the daily social situations that takes place in your life, you gain the control needed to do what needs to be done

3. Becoming a Pick Up Artist gives you 'permission' to talk to hot women and bring them into your life. It allows you to be your best self and show the world what that best self entails... increasing the overall amount and quality of women that you have to choose from for establishing a single or multiple long term relationship(s).

4. Becoming a PUA for me allowed me to have true selection on who I was with - both who my friends were and who I was dating. It also empowered me to have the confidence to learn what I would and would not put up with in women, dating and even non-intimate relationships. In short, it powered me to be the person that I always knew I could be.

5. Being a Pick Up Artist helps eliminate needy behavior that is detrimental to your success in life, school and even in business. Once you become empowered as a cool, confident man who has success with amazing women, you will become more confident in all aspects of your life. This confidence will enhance your professional and personal success and in turn make you even more successful with women and dating. This 'positive' spiral will generate social momentum and make you even more desirable to other people.

6. Being a Pick Up Artist allows you to get attention when you are out in social situations. Just like in marketing... all press is good press. So on that note, when out in a social venue - attention is always good. Whether it is peacocking with a fedora, a funky hat, a group of lovely ladies or a pair of binoculars around your neck you will get attention as a pick up artist. This attention can help you get drinks faster, skip ahead in line (most pick up artists are friends with the bouncers or owners of the clubs they frequent making this not necessary) and also have access to the best tables. With 'attention', you do not have to work to get a woman's attention... you will already have it.

7. A Pick Up Artist has a busy lifestyle and many friends and women in his social circle. This naturally makes him more desirable due to a principle called scarcity. Women and people in general are naturally attracted to someone who they can't quite figure out 100%. If you are really busy not completely available to a girl, she will automatically become more interested. Having your own life, having other things to do, other women to date and goals and plans that extend behind the woman you are interested in shows that you are desirable and she will want you even more. This 'naturally' makes you more successful with women.

8. Women are naturally attracted to men who have high social value. When you dress confidently it gives the impression that you make a lot of money (doesn't have to be true) and that you have your life in order. Both of these fulfill the provider/protector instinct that she is seeking in a mate. Most good PUAs have a built in (usually learned) attitude that displays some cocky and humorous traits that further display that they are providers and protectors of their friends, relatives and women. This is very attractive and will help you get the woman that you ultimately desire.

9. Most people enjoy spending time around people that they like and who are interesting. Becoming a good PUA means that you become both more interesting and more likable. Everyone wants to be around someone who makes us feel good about ourselves and / or someone who is in a place in their life that we want to be at (it is human nature). A good PUA knows how to make others feel good about themselves and also is usually in a place that is happy for them and their life. Also PUAs have done enough learning and soul searching where they become much more interesting than the average frustrated chump who is just going out to try to get 'lucky' all the time.

10. Becoming good at pick up will automatically make you an authority figure. People are raised (socially programmed) to naturally listen to and obey authority figures. Everyone, especially women in dating situations, want to be with someone who is in control of the situation and their environment. Whether is ordering food in a restaurant or deciding where they are going on a date, people want to be with someone who is strong, knows what they want and are not needy and value seeking. A PUA gives value, not takes it from others. That is attractive.