So shes BACK.......

hey all PUA's ok so this is a recap of my situation. I got on the go with this chick/teacher last year and she kinda got attatched and it got awkward she wanted commitment but im still in school and stuff bla bla (shes a bit older than me im 22 shes 28) anyways that ended things and then she was gone away for a year to BC. We did keep in contact as friends and Now shes back and lives close to me. I asked her we should meet up sometime and she said yes. Been two days now, and i want to message her saying this,

"i got an exam tomorrow so im locked up with the studies but was wondering if maybe you wanna hangout/meetup sometime tomorrow after my exam (12:30pm) if your free that is. I don't mean to rush you or anything just let me know"

Does that sound wrong?? or what would b a better way to put i mean i dont want her to rush see'ing me even though i wouldnt mind see'ing her asap. I may like this chick but im confused the fuk out of my mind....help

Sounds fine to me. She already said yes, right? So just chill, and go with it.
Don't say the thing about rushing, it makes you seem like an AFC.
It also sounds like your the one that attached.
Don't treat this girl any different than any other girl.
When I say that, I mean don't elevate her above others.
The relationship already there, just be confident.

ok so i didnt txt her what i was originally going to. Yes so she did agree to hangout sometime my AFC thinkin was almost pushing me to message her on facebook again and say something but i resisted. instead i got a msg from her asking me to confirm my phone number. Now, should i wait till she calls me or should i call her when i get over my exam OR should i drop the other suggested txt to celebrate?

I agree 100% with chance.

hey guys sorry for the delay, but yea i messaged her that shes busy messaged her after 3 days shes still busy so im just gonna ignore her i dont wanna sound too needy, its her loss :P

How about this line...for when she does call you...and says to meet or whatever...

I have tried this on chicks who just waste my time.
They call and ask to meet up....they were not able to meet up when I wanted to meet up...so this is what happens..

her...hey it's x I was wondering if you wanted to go to y tonight...
I say...."What are you joking? You are just wasting my time, what do you think I am? Do you honestly beleive I have nothing better to do, I called you once, you didn't want to go out. Now you are calling me, it doesn't work like that baby.
her...what? are you joking? I am soo sorry I wasted your time, please come out to tonight...
I say..."You know I'll give you one last chance to make up for it, I am too tired to go out to place x tonight for dinner, but I'll come over your house so we can just chill..."

What happened there is...I initially made myself seem like I wanted her...she knew it...(the actions you took showed to your girl that you wanted her)...when they know you can't just walk out on them...that is when they try and take the lead, and LEAVE YOU...you DON"T want that...so you raise up your status MAKING IT CLEAR that you don't give a ...about her...she replies, on a lower status than yours now, trying to make herself qualify to you....which leads to the yes for the "dinner at her place"

Hope it makes sense...don't call her...she will call...when she does adapt what I said above and it should work out pretty well...it does for me and some of my friends so I guess it should work for others.

I used the exact same approach with a smoking hot gal in NY.

Bill i know it sounds horrible, and I wouldn't admit it anywhere else, but doesn't it feel great being such a cocky jerk like that and it working out? Its like the movies HA

Madd Hatter