10 Ways To Pick Up Women

Picking up a woman tends to be easy and fun when you are at the right place and at the right time. Here are the ways to pick up a woman to help the alpha males on their dating and love life.

1. Go to the right place. The usual places for men to pick up women are the clubs, bars and disco houses. Whether you are going alone or with friends, make sure to choose a nice, safe and well-known place. You don't necessarily have to opt for the most expensive, but consider researching and asking trusted people on the best hang-outs that's best to pick-up a woman.

2. Chose the right girl. I know that it's hard, but I'll try to make it easier for you. Once you enter the place, you will probably have a lot of "potential targets" to choose from. Find someone and examine them from afar. Are they alone? Well, it may or may not be a good sign. You're lucky if she's alone. But she might be waiting for someone else on the other hand. Is she with her friends or with a group of people? Don't loose hope; there will always be a great chance that her companions will leave the table to dance/go to restroom and stuff. Notice of she looks bored or unhappy. This will be a great opportunity for you to get her attention.

3. Practice the art of flirting. The best way a stranger can notice you is to suggest that you are attracted to her through body language flirting. Use the eye contact test. If you catch her trading glances with you, that is your cue to get off your ass and approach. It's a clear sign that she finds you attractive and she wants you to approach her.

4. Approach her and introduce yourself. And by that, I mean properly. Just because the place is not formal, you should make an effort to introduce yourself in a striking and intelligent manner. Ask her casual questions, like if she's having fun but avoid buying her a drink! Only beta males buy drinks for women right off the bat.

5. Avoid cheesy and blunt pick-up lines. Using pick-up lines is probably the most widely used way to pick up a woman. A girl can smell a fake from a mile away. Opt for casual questions and ice breakers. Smile and make eye contact.

6. Be a good conversationalist. Talk to her in a way that she will find you interesting, funny and sincere. Inject humor, teasing, curiosity and seriousness in your conversation. Take advantage of this opportunity to get to know her better and learn a lot of new things as well.

7. Mind your manners. Everyone's attracted to a gentleman. Try to leave a good impression by being polite, interested and appropriate. If you ask her to dance, respect her decision if she declines. If she says yes, dance with grace and leave the body grinding for another time.

8. When things get more a little more serious and comfortable suggest a less quite place where you both can sit down and talk. The best way to pick up a woman, as they say, is to gain her trust and make her feel at ease with you.

9. Compliment her. The trick is not to be like everyone else. Don't compliment her beauty! Every other guy does that and she's heard it a million times. Find something unique and compliment her on that.

10. Remember that picking up women needs practice. It's a numbers game and there will always be a time where you will get rejected. Accept it and learn from your mistakes.

It definitely is OK to compliment a woman.. but make it on something more interesting than how attractive she is or whatever... she hears that all the time. Instead compliment her on how well her shoes go with her shirt or something that she obviously did on purpose but nobody has noticed or mentioned. That will make you stand out from all the other AFCs who compliment her looks.

Hrm. I think much of this advice is flawed. I mean, a good PUA doesn't need to wait until a girl is away from her friends. If he is socially calibrated, he should go up and befriend the whole group including the girl he is interested in. Also... while it is a numbers game and you do need to learn from your mistakes - the goal is not to have that attitude. That is almost a.. I am going to approach every woman and hope that I get lucky with one of them. It is important to treat each interaction as if you truly do have a chance with them and if it doesn't work - always try to analyze why it did not work (without beating yourself up).

Thanks for the post. Although I agree with some you say, there are also things a disagree with. I would like to share the things where my view and experience is different.

Imo rarely is a place the wrong place and/or time. Imo it's just that one needs to adjust the (energy level) according to the environment. So if I were to talk to a lady who's shopping in a store and it's kind of quite, I would be approaching her according to that situation. While for instance in a club/bar I would approach her with a different energy level.
So in my view every place is the right place, make it the right place. So in my view every time is the right place, make it the right time.
I think we should give ourselfes the FREEDOM to not limit ourselfes to places and times. Even if a situation or place is far from ideal, you for sure will learn from it and it makes more suitable approaches (place and time wise) only easier.
Trying to determine from a distance wether a gril is the right girl. I would say is hard to determine, I mean you have to assume a lot of things from what the signals she is sending out means. And I think they are easily up for misinterpretation. And I think one runs the risk off becoming to (over) anlyzing in one's head beforehand.
While just approaching would make things clear faster.
To add, this in nr.1 most important thing in my experience. With smile you let them see you mean no harm, want to be friendly and having fun. While the eye contact shows them you are strong and the leader, and she can feel safe with you.
To add, I learned from a salesperson: ABC. Meaning: Always Be Closing. So always work towards a close you want, wether it be moving to a one-on-one situation, or contact info.

My 2 cents, Bye scarface

I agree man. It is so easy to sit on the side lines, or wonder what it would be like to follow your dreams, or worse yet - put them off until tomorrow. The worst is when you say - OK, this is important to me I will start tomorrow, or I will start after this test or after I finish this class or after I get back from vacation.

No. START RIGHT NOW. Today.