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Has anybody have any experience of using speed seduction techniques on sex/swinger type websites. I am trying to write a good advert/profile on a swinger website that will have woman dying to contact me.

I am sure you know this but just because a woman is sexually liberated and advertising on a sex website does not men she is an easy lay or somebody who will jump into bed with anybody at a drop of a hat.

The problem with sex dating websites is the men vastly outnumber the women (it is also the same for normal dating websites). Some women complain they get about 25 - 100 messages a day from single men. So I want to make myself stand out. I don't want to come across as another desperate AFC.

I want to write a profile/advert that is different and gets women who read my profile hot and bothered lol. I want the words/patterns used to make them want to contact me. If my advert/profile gets them contacting me then to me this is a plus in that they contacted me first I am not just another AFC who contacted them first.

It will also be interesting to see if NLP/speed seduction can work with just words as you cannot use other speed seduction skills like anchoring etc

well for starters one way is do what style did and make yourself seem extremlly cocky and arrogent then when actually meeting the women you come out as an intellectuall. style did this exact thing on one of those personal websites and worked like a charm for him

I can only really speak to hotornot as I've had no success at all on AFF.

For hotornot there are only two rules:
1) Have a good photo. Keep trying different pics until you get one that is rated 9 or better. This is great because now you know what your best photos are and you can use them anywhere you need to post your mug.
2) Be different and initiate contact. The only females that ever contact me are ones that are about 3 rungs too low on the ladder for me to seriously consider. My best responses have come from openings that were bordering between funny and outright stupid, but for some reason chicks seem to dig that. If you can show humor through a dating site you're in a pretty good position.

I'll keep watching because I'm curious to know what others have to say. I'd love to improve my AFF profile as it is mostly just a waste of space. I've heard cock pics are essential, but I just can't bring myself to post my cock. I don't know why.

Match was good for me, never got serious on any other dating or sex like sites.

All I will say is that I stopped doing match because my friends and I were having TOO MUCH SUCCESS with women. I mean, I think I had 5-10 sex on the first night.. or I just escalated and pushed them away and setup a day 2 or 2nd date 3-5 days later and pretty much always got a BJ or sex. It became too easy. Just be a fun, non-needy, interesting guy who is not pushing the action, but who also makes it clear that you are a sexual person who enjoys to have fun with women and you are set. It is ridiculous how many women I got from having a decent profile online.

Adult Friend Finder has way too many men versus women. I know a woman who was on AFF and she was getting at least 100 mails a day.