ADVICE ASAP!!

Hello my bros...

heres the deal, i got this wedding on sunday (yes, in two days) and yesterday we were at a club having drinks, all the friends of the groom and bride were there.. the reserve this vip at a good club and it was awesome..

suddenly i found myself toaking to this HB9.. which ive known for several years, but never been into her or the other way around.. and i say: this pre-wedding party is awesome, imagine the wedding, and she replied: yes i cant imagine, are you invited i said yes, youre going right? she said no im not invited, so i asked her: well why dont you come with me.. she said: really? ok, awesome... we exchanged phone numbers... and thats it, told her i will call her saturday to remind her of the wedding...

saw her a couple of times again in the club and when i took of i just gave her a gentle kiss on the cheek said i was going to be and that was it...

the thing here is... im not like really attracted to her, i just think shes cool and hot as hell... but i know that maybe something can be build at that wedding.


any advices on what to do or not to do... thanks!

Hold up. She's hot (HB9) and cool... but you are not attracted to her?

no no no.. of course im attracted to her..

but ive never had this openning... so being the kind of girl she is ive never picture myself doing this, like going to a wedding together.. you know.. so i just didnt think of anything cuz i thought she would be out of my range, thats what i try to say.. pardon my english.

i mean this would be like de hottest girl i would have date in my 26 years of existance.. the idea is that were going like friends, so maybe the question is how i transform that from friends to another thing, or get her interested in me.

Have you seen wedding crashers? If you haven't you are truly missing out... anyways. You know they go to weddings and are just plain having a farking amazing time? Dancing, laughing, singing, just bringing fun and happiness and good times to everyone.

Do that. Also, you don't need to impress her or try hard with her - just enjoy the hell out of it like she was a great friend. But here is the key, that will keep you from being just her friend. While you are having a GREAT time, you need to flirt with her. Smile at her, maybe wink. Tease her. Find an inside joke to laugh about. Maybe look around the room and secretly (and quietly) try to determine which family members are going to get drunk and do something stupid. Etc.

Have fun, don't drink more than her and just go for it man.

I would say to remember to be a guy that touches alot, Kino escalate, flirt, you dont eant to be in the LJBF zone, be fun and social man.

Dantas

I agree with above. Weddings can be SUPER boring, or an all expense paid PARTY that you can just rock. Remember, be in the moment. Don't think of anything else except for how much fun you are having. There are some techniques you can learn to be in the moment and just get out of your own head. Maybe scream and yell (by yourself of course) before you go pick up your date, just find your inner fun guy. If you find yourself thinking too much, just stop thinking about whatever it is and think of something funny and get that fun guy attitude going.

Let us know how it goes.