What should i do ?

I have never went on a normal date! I have been in a real relationship 3time, but never went on a date with a stranger.
For me theres no problem to Get Girls. I Meet Girls all the time in bars and clubs and pretty often i take them to my place for a sex. The problem is, that i "get laid" whenever i want to BUT im always drunk..
I need some tips how to behave on a normal sober date

Example: I met this beautiful girl last wednesday in club. She was oout of town so as a gentleman i offered my couch for her to sleep on and she came . No sex just sleeping. Friday I txted her and asked if she would like to go on a date saturday, she replied "yes". I was nervous as sh*t whole saturday, I almost cancelled our date. BUT 2hours before our date she called me and said that shes going to summer cottage and we can't see that night so lets see some other time. No problem i said.
Then came sunday and i went out in a bar with my friend and had "great idea" to txt her some bs coz i was drunk. Now i dont know does she ever want to meet me again. Should i call or txt her or wait for her to contact me??

Sry for my bad english i'm from Finland
Thanks
Matvei

dude - for the most amazing first date advice, subscribe to the newsletter from this site. There is a first date blueprint, that is just fantastic.

very nice

Guys. I need some advice should I contact her or wait for her to contact me?

-Matvei

Hey Matvei,

Congrats on showing enough value and being cool enough where she would come home with you. I would definitely call her and invite her to something fun in your area (a local park, a dive bar, whatever). I would also call 2 or 3 other women and arrange things with them as it seems like you are placing too much value on this one girl. She may be amazing, but there are a lot of amazing girls out there and the one way to absolutely kill her attraction for you is to place all this value on her. Especially since she hasn't earned it, but that is another topic.

So my best advice is to definitely call her, but also schedule 2-3 other dates this week. If she fits in great, if not you have 2-3 other women to hang out with.

Bill

thnx.

I will wait for a day or two and set a date with her if she still ok with it