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Old 09-30-2009, 03:26 PM
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Default Study Buddy?

Ok. "There's this girl"... anyway, I had a class with her last semester. We made extreme extended eye contact. The class ended, nothing happened. I ended up having another class with her. About a week into the class, she added me on facebook asking if she could borrow a book for the class; she didn't add anyone else from the class. I waited about 3 weeks.. now I sent her a message asking if she wants to meet to study for the test, since its a little over a week away. She messaged me back saying she could use a "study buddy" and talking about how nervous she is about the test. She gave me her phone number in the message.

My question: I've heard from a lot of people that studying together isn't the best way to "hookup", that it leads you into the friend zone. However, this girl *knows* iI like her sexually - we made eye contact for almost 30 seconds in the other class. But I don't like the term study buddy, or the fact that she just talked about the test.

Also, let's say we go to study but I try to make the conversation about something else, more personal, etc. Is this a good idea?

Am I wrong in seeing her facebook add(she added me) as an Indicator Of Interest? Did I blow it by asking her to study? Did she just agree out of pity or she just wants to get it over with?


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Old 09-30-2009, 04:11 PM
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Have you read The Game? If you have, flip back to the section where he interviewed Brittney Spears. This is going to be your guideline for how this should play out.

Begin the conversation with solid game. Talk to her, get her attracted, and use "we should probably start studying" as your time constraint. Then, when you take study breaks, every 20 minutes or so, go back into game mode. Use negs, lines, routines and whatever else you need to build attraction, but instead of saying "well, I need to go meet up with my friends now," you say "time to study," or "let me show you this one thing real quick, and then we'll get back to studying." When studying is all said and done, see if you can transition into a date "hey, since we're already out...." or, when after the test, say "Since you did so well, I'll let you buy me a drink to celebrate."

Man, after reading what I just wrote, I REALLY wish I'd know about this stuff when I was in college. Good luck!


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I think many of the guys on this site have read "conquer your campus", but if not - this book is exactly what anyone in school needs to read to improve their game on campus. PUA just plain doesn't work in a social environment like school.

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Old 10-02-2009, 10:38 PM
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Have you read The Game? If you have, flip back to the section where he interviewed Brittney Spears. This is going to be your guideline for how this should play out.

Begin the conversation with solid game. Talk to her, get her attracted, and use "we should probably start studying" as your time constraint. Then, when you take study breaks, every 20 minutes or so, go back into game mode. Use negs, lines, routines and whatever else you need to build attraction, but instead of saying "well, I need to go meet up with my friends now," you say "time to study," or "let me show you this one thing real quick, and then we'll get back to studying." When studying is all said and done, see if you can transition into a date "hey, since we're already out...." or, when after the test, say "Since you did so well, I'll let you buy me a drink to celebrate."

Man, after reading what I just wrote, I REALLY wish I'd know about this stuff when I was in college. Good luck!
Good post...couldn't agree more
So, yeah...just put her in that state and pull her out with the studying as the constraint..do this on and off
Use lot of non-verbal flirting

Do some playful Kino by playful punching her in the arm when she says something wrong, I also playfully poke girls with my finger or from the back of a pen, try to0 trip them off their chair etc...
This sets off a flirty vibe between you two
The odds are in your favor if you aren't too eager to get her out of the house without enough attraction


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Old 10-02-2009, 11:31 PM
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Thanks for the advice.


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