Before we tell you What Women Want In Men...

I want to see what you guys think they want... so reply to this post with what you think women want. I have a GREAT surprise for all members of this forum.

Bill

Alright, I'll take my best shot. xD

- Women want a guy who is in control of himself and his reality.
- They want a guy who can give them good sex.
- They want a guy who can support them financially and/or emotionally.
- They want a guy who has a fun lifestyle for them to be a part of.
- They want a competent guy who knows how to solve problems.
- They want a guy that will make all of their friends jealous.

good start... what else guys?

Women want a man who is honest

Women want a man that can tease their sense's

Women want a man that can even remain a Mystery to them long after the honeymoon phases (if you make it that far with them)

Women want a confident, decisive man

Women want a man that can make her feel good on many levels...yes that means further than sex

Women want someone that will not be afraid to admit to his softer side every once and a while

-dahn

-Until next time-

Such great responses. You guys are saying many of the things that women want. As a woman I know I want a lot of those things.

One of the things you guys listed that popped out at me is saying that women want a mysterious man who can still remain mysterious after the honeymoon phase.

I have to say I am not into Mystery with a guy. In the beginning maybe yes but I think that if the mystery continues for too long it creates an unequal balance in a relationship. The truth is that if I was dating someone who remained a mystery to me it would make me feel insecure about the man and our relationship.

Relationships are about sharing and getting to know one another and connecting. That is a healthy relationship. I am not saying to divulge everything but to slowly release information as trust grows is magical. That is what great relationships are based on and that is what women want. A man that makes her feel special enough to share himself.

A woman know what she wants
But most of the time she will never tell you what she wants
Of course she will always want that you must know exactly what she wants
Go figure..

But that Mystery is what makes women so appealing...

I'll list a few things that I personally believe to be what women want. No particular order.

Women want to converse, they want a man who has enough life experiences to be able to share opinions in a conversation that will keep them interested over and over again. In this sense they want a man that can share stories, by share I mean they want to be able to talk about stuff too and for that man to listen.

Women want to feel that the man will be able to stay confident and competent in most situations. Obviously they don't expect you to be a man with no fear, doubts or worries, they are human and can sense when a guy is fake.

Women want to feel desired as well as feeling desire for the man. It's a two way thing, it takes two to tango. Beyond the PU and relating more to relationships (as some of the above have mentioned) women need to feel loved as much as the man, if not more.

Women want adventure. They want to experience things just like a man. The ideals might be different from a male or female perspective but they still want that piece of action.

Women want sex. This is a natural activity that both men and women feel biological responses for unless conditioned not too. Women on a primal level need to fulfil their desires for sex with a partner within their own Comfort zone.

Most of all women want a man that is fun and serious when need be. Sometimes you need to be serious with women, or about certain topics whereas sometimes you need to be serious. By serious I don't mean a 'killjoy' but there are times when it is appropriate.

I could list a few more but I've elaborated on the above and believe quite a few of the aforementioned. Hope these satisfy.

Women want men who they can mother.
Women want men who fills their neurotic needs.
Women want me who are bad for them.
Wiomen want men who are exciting.

What woman wants is survival. They want a man which can give her health/wealth/etc to survive in the society and maintain their Social Status.

Short and sweet.

- KH