Help please!

11-09-2009, 04:47 PM

Ok so im starting on this girl from scratch. It's another internet girl from beautiful people.com. I find internet conversations great for starting out as you can practice your lines, techniques without fear of failing. I recommend it to all.

So this girl has gone like this:

Lez999 wrote: you have a funny but cute crooked smile. so tell me are you someone i should get to know better?

HB9: lol
why would you want to get know someone with a funny crooked smile better :S!

aside from that i'm curious as to where your name is from..are you persian?

Lez999: no im not persian but my name is from near by. its hebrew and means lion, im from israel.

well i think a crooked smile is cute, not being perfect adds interest and value. ill tell you something else, whether i have a crooked smile, a perfect smile or all funky sparkling diamond and gold teeth at all, it doesn't change the way i'm treated by other people. it's all your attitude, hence why i was asking if you are someone interesting and worth getting to know. don't you agree?

What do you guys think of my start and what would say next?

11-09-2009, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lez999

Ok so im starting on this girl from scratch. It's another internet girl from beautiful people.com. I find internet conversations great for starting out as you can practice your lines, techniques without fear of failing. I recommend it to all.

So this girl has gone like this:

Lez999 wrote: you have a funny but cute crooked smile. so tell me are you someone i should get to know better?

HB9: lol
why would you want to get know someone with a funny crooked smile better :S!

aside from that i'm curious as to where your name is from..are you persian?

Lez999: no im not persian but my name is from near by. its hebrew and means lion, im from israel.

well i think a crooked smile is cute, not being perfect adds interest and value. ill tell you something else, whether i have a crooked smile, a perfect smile or all funky sparkling diamond and gold teeth at all, it doesn't change the way i'm treated by other people. it's all your attitude, hence why i was asking if you are someone interesting and worth getting to know. don't you agree?

What do you guys think of my start and what would say next?

Not bad. I liked how you teased her from the start with "are you someone I should get to know better?" However, I think the last thing you said there was a bit long for a message. It would be better if you could lead her on a little by leaving cliff hangers so you're breaking up that paragraph into small sentences.

Something like

You: It interests me that you're not trying to be perfect like most girls are.

^ the girl is going to wonder why and ask you about it. This way you can continue your conversation from there.

Hope this helps.

11-13-2009, 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe

Not bad. I liked how you teased her from the start with "are you someone I should get to know better?" However, I think the last thing you said there was a bit long for a message. It would be better if you could lead her on a little by leaving cliff hangers so you're breaking up that paragraph into small sentences.

Something like

You: It interests me that you're not trying to be perfect like most girls are.

^ the girl is going to wonder why and ask you about it. This way you can continue your conversation from there.

Hope this helps.

She never answered back so I sent her this email today and got this reply:

Lez999: well imperfect cool girl? i don't wait around forever...

HB9: I thought you'd get it by now; move on, you don't NEED to wait!
Never been spoken to so rudely by someone so incredibly non-BPesque. Conceited is the only word that comes to mind sorry. There are people on here one hundred times nicer and one million times less conceited.

I actually couldn't stop laughing at her reply! But now I have a couple of questions. I obviously got a reaction out of her, can a negative reaction (massively negative) be turned into a good one? If not, what did I do wrong and how would you have done it differently? What should I do next?

By non-BPesque she means im not good looking basically.

11-13-2009, 08:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lez999

She never answered back so I sent her this email today and got this reply:

Lez999: well imperfect cool girl? i don't wait around forever...

HB9: I thought you'd get it by now; move on, you don't NEED to wait!
Never been spoken to so rudely by someone so incredibly non-BPesque. Conceited is the only word that comes to mind sorry. There are people on here one hundred times nicer and one million times less conceited.

I actually couldn't stop laughing at her reply! But now I have a couple of questions. I obviously got a reaction out of her, can a negative reaction (massively negative) be turned into a good one? If not, what did I do wrong and how would you have done it differently? What should I do next?

By non-BPesque she means im not good looking basically.

She's negging you at this point. What you need to do is neg her back. Tell her that she's boring because she can't even take a joke. Then say "I thought you were different, but I guess you're the typical type of girl who'd only hang with guys who puts them on a pedestal after all".

11-14-2009, 06:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe

She's negging you at this point. What you need to do is neg her back. Tell her that she's boring because she can't even take a joke. Then say "I thought you were different, but I guess you're the typical type of girl who'd only hang with guys who puts them on a pedestal after all".

Ok did what you said:

Lez999: oh wow aren't we boring, you can't even take a joke. I thought you were different, but I guess you're the typical type of girl who'd only hang with guys who puts them on a pedestal after all

She wrote back:

HB9: lol you are so deluded!
have a good week

Now what do i write? I want to get this girl now!

11-14-2009, 05:35 PM

This ain't magic buddy. It's going to take time for you to game her. It seems as if she's trying to resist your neg. This opens an opportunity for you to let her qualify herself to you.

You can say something like "Oh yeah? Let's meet up at X for a coffee so I get to know you better and I'll decide if you're the typical type or not."

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