This is brilliant! her reply is amazing! need help!

Ok, so here's the story, Saw a cute girl on beautifulpeople.com and the conversation went like this:

Lez999 wrote: you have a funny but cute crooked smile. so tell me are you someone i should get to know better?

HB9: lol
why would you want to get know someone with a funny crooked smile better :S!

aside from that i'm curious as to where your name is from..are you persian?

Lez999: no im not persian but my name is from near by. its hebrew and means lion, im from israel.

well i think a crooked smile is cute, not being perfect adds interest and value. ill tell you something else, whether i have a crooked smile, a perfect smile or all funky sparkling diamond and gold teeth at all, it doesn't change the way i'm treated by other people. it's all your attitude, hence why i was asking if you are someone interesting and worth getting to know. don't you agree?

Now, she never answered back so I sent her this email today and got this reply:

Lez999: well imperfect cool girl? i don't wait around forever...

HB9: I thought you'd get it by now; move on, you don't NEED to wait!
Never been spoken to so rudely by someone so incredibly non-BPesque. Conceited is the only word that comes to mind sorry. There are people on here one hundred times nicer and one million times less conceited.

I actually couldn't stop laughing at her reply! But now I have a couple of questions. I obviously got a reaction out of her, can a negative reaction (massively negative) be turned into a good one? If not, what did I do wrong and how would you have done it differently? What should I do next?

edit: just realised that by non-BPesque she means im not good looking basically.

I dont do alot of internet pick up, actually none, but I think, in my newbie pants I would have done this.

first off, the neg was too hard, I wouldn't open with a you look bad neg, maybe a " You have flint on your shirt" neg or something (in person, style neg/opener). I think I would have done this "Do you know Haley Zimmerman? She was this girl who I used to race muscle cars with in high school, you look very similar in some ways, I cant put my finger on it, are you related?"

At the end of the day, maybe she just hates Jews, who knows.

And by the way, I think 90% of the guys in the community got here by spending so much time on the pc, I would say, forget online dating, farking is about the hunt, and you need to get off your pc, and into your loin cloth and kick some ass. Mystery was right, stop jerking off and you will get right into the game.

Never start online dating with negs!

Here is the deal, if a person is signed up on online dating, it means they are looking to meet new people, hence they lower their bitch-shield (neg works as a false-disqualifier to show ur lackof intrets in order to pass girl's bitch-shield), so a girl at the safety of her home when she signs up for an online dating, does not have a bitch-shield unless you seem creepy or use cocky-funny where its not appropriate, so things to avoid are:
-Negs
-Sleezy comments
-Oridinary compliments (you look so hot)
and ...

I myself do have a gf and I use that as my opener saying

"hellooooooooo
I'm new to this website and just saw ur profile and thought to add ya. Just so you, I DO have a girlfriend -as I don't want ya to think that I'm a creepy guy who farks around with girls- but I love networking and meeting new people. My name is Shahnam... *then I start a convo about one of their intrests* "
What you need to realize with the opener "im new to this website" is, you need to BE new to the website, as she might have seen you before or you could just say, "I signed up agez ago but never used it, and thought to check it out again and see how it works"

Why this method is good in my view is, first of all, Im coming out as an honest person, who is in a relationship and is NOT trying to hit on them and is just looking to meet new "friends". Plus it shows you are loyal when in relationship, so when u do become single, they would like to date you as they know you'd make a loyal boyfriend!

Now she might ask:
"if you have a girl-friend why you r u on this website? "

or

"if you do have a gf, why do you add girls and wanna meet them instead of guys?"

which to answer to first one, you could come up with diff shit such as " My friend asked me to sign up so I can give my opinion on a certain girl whom she's talking to on this website"
and for the 2nd one
"Well my best friends are female and my gf knows it and is cool with it" (Which is actually true about me)

You might ask "as you said Im looking for friends, she might only see you as a friend?" Well that is true in a way, but we start off as "online-friends". we talk on msn and facebook, u get to "listen" to her and help her without judgin her and she will recognize that, so she will trust ya more, and as the reason u said you are friends, is the fact that you have a gf, that makes YOU unavailable FOR HER, and we all know how much we love stuff we can't have!

Just for the record, I do not go around meeting girls like this and fark around with them when I have a girlfriend, but we all relationships don't last forever, its good to have as many options avaiable!

YES!

Too many people on this forum spend TOO MUCH farkING TIME on the computer.

Go out and field test.

You can't k-close or f-close on the computer, so go out to a farking party already or even a kick back to run game, the PC doesn't do shit.

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Thats no all true! I persoanlly have had many f-close or k-close through PC. But I agree, you have better chances in the field and its a quicker result, but in spare time at home, its good to have a look around online

You've k-closed and f-closed on the PC?

I hope that you met up with her for that.

I mean I txt girls and chat with girls on Facebook that I actually know and when I do meet with them I can kino really well and my textual flirting becomes sexual tension when we actually meet.

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Lez999, Aside from this one interaction (which failed and you need to "move on"). How has your experience been on beautifulpeople.com?

While I agree you should spend more time sarging out in the real world. I find it otherwise ignorant to suggest that gaming online isn't worthwhile. If it gets you results, then that alone, automatically makes it a worthwhile activity.

My poor usage of words, but I thought you'd be smarter than that and actually realize what I meant. I met them online, talked and chatted for a while and slowly shift the onversation sexual after I gain their trust and meet up!

Sorry,
I'm in currently in high school and my field of game is completely different than anyone in college or living on their own.

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Thats cool, IMO for highschool and that age group, The more mature you seem like, the more they find you attractive! By mature I do not mean no-fun. But a person who seems responsible and try and make people to look up to you and use "you're being childish" or "you need to grow up!" as much as you can, and PARTY hardddd!

Yeah, since my routines and dhv are all about the human thought process, the girls view me as someone not only they're attracted to, but someone they can learn from.
The psychology being used in game is amazing since they usually engage a girl in what she thinks which she HAS to find interesting because EVERYONE has to think. Since I'm in high school, people tend to be looking for some understanding and whenever I get asked about psychiatric shit since I give off that I'm knowledgeable about human thinking since my routine consists of the cube and Palm Reading. I even throw in a kind of mature joke that "Psychology is the mind studying itself" which girls find opening since they think to themselves "Hah. I never really thought of it like that."

Long explanatory paragraph short, I farking love game. =]

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