Give her a nick name.

One of my favorite things to do when I meet a girl is to give her a cute / descriptive nick name. For example I met a really cute Asian girl in the elevator at work in downtown NYC. We were both going down to grab some starbucks and we started talking and flirting. I got her name and IM information and later that day started chatting with her.. but I truly forgot her name. She was hence-forth "elevator girl" in my mind. I even called her that and she punched me on the arm the first time calling me an ass-hole (which is always good when she is laughing when she say's it).

So try it.. make up a nick name for girls and even call it by that. It works.

Yea I know right.

Re-Name her.

hah! great minds think a like!

I'm giving you a nick name, OVO, because honestly, I don't want you to become Mystery, I want you to become the best you that you can be, OVO is latin for EGG, and right now, you are in the egg, and when you come out as T-rex, or Cobra, or whatever, then you can take that name.

The best possible solution, is for you to become confident enough, with high enough status, to be interesting enough, that you wont ever have to IOD the target or neg her, she will do it to herself, that you will never have to hook the target, your presence will do it for you.

Send me a pm, alright OVO?

I have always done this and it always works. I once asked a HB why she went out with me and she said "you were the only one to ever give me a nickname, no one else every dared to". Then I laughed in her face and called her the nickname and she loved it.

how about calling a girl cute but very dryly?

I love to say a girl is cute... it kind of makes me seem like she is just that... cute.