She's drunk-texting me

This girl ive been friendly with and have been upping the stakes in recent weeks. been playing it cautious because still not sure how interested she is. Anyway, tonight i get some texts from her which don't make any sense. something about me coming to hang out with her wherever she is. How should I be responding? Like what attitude should I have?

Responding? YES.

Reply - "Sure, if you buy the first drink. "

Then go have fun. She's yours.

Pretend you never had this thought, and do exactly what Bill said.

Take the messages at face value. If she's inviting you for a drink and you can go, then say YES and arrange where to meet If she asks you to stay around and hang out and talk, then do just that. If she asks for a kiss... and you want to give her one, then do just that!

But if she is drunk and asks you to do some other serious stuff, make sure you back off gently. Better play the 'good boy' than be called by so many horrible names later!

I'd also make sure the message was really intended for you. I believe drunk girls and long nails make for a lot of missent texts.

I have to disagree with the two posters in front of me.

A drunk girl texting you is a VERY good sign.

To quote my favorite latin phrase:

In Vino Veritas

Translation:

In Wine [there is] Truth

She wants you.

So I should order more drinks for a girl who was initially ambivalent with my attempts to hook up if she started getting more friendly as she got more wasted?

Cool.

No.

I assume you are being factious, but in case you aren't:

Yes, alcohol can make a women easier to attract, but it is unethical. Not only that, if you start initial attraction while the woman is drunk there is a very likely chance that it won't last when she is sober. However, if a women of her own free will contacts you while she is drunk, she is most likely seriously into you.

Some girls use text messages to flirt. And sometimes, we guys don't know what it means. If a girl sends you a message and it seems she wanna go out with you or giving you a clue that she likes you, be ready to jump in and enjoy the ride.. lol!