How To Keep the ball rolling?

Hi Guys,

There's this girl to whom I am very attracted to. Actually we're friends but I wanted more than that. She always talks about different things and share stuff with me. But there were times I don't like the topic? It would be rude if I divert our conversation to another topic right? How can I improve the tone of our conversation making myself interested to her stories?

Make yourself diverse and well read so that you always have something interesting to bring to any topic. Also, learn how to listen to her rather then just use her to entertain you.Really listen, you don't always have to talk, guys who always have to talk are waaayy too nervous. That said, dont worry about just letting the conversation flow, when you are comfortable, the topic will change constantly in a relaxed conversation.

Got it! Thanks man...

Instinct is right.. You have to be diverse in order for you to initiate or say something in a conversation, no matter what the topic is.. Also, if you'r knowledgeable, you can be confident talking with the girl you want

If she shares a lot of thoughts with you, it means that she is open to you. Go for a more intimate gesture like ask her to go out with you, do some fun stuff together(not too serious when inviting her..remember you're friends. she might think that you are getting advantage of the situation. A lot of men are dumped bcoz of the wrong gesture. Keep it real!!

Yeah.. I know it's a big challenge for me to win her..But I guess, perseverance and eyes on the prize will help me out..I want to learn new pick up lines, not the classic ones for me to apply it in winning this one. I want your advices guys so that I won't blow up this one...

Well, as I can see. You already have a connection since you are friends. I know, to some, jumping from a friend situation to a gf-bf relationship would be difficult. Feel the pulse in your present situation. Once you tell her how you feel, it will lead to only 2 things: one is that she will accept your feelings and tell you she has the same or two, she will feel taken advantaged and move away from you.

If you know a lot of things, that means you can say something on different topics/issues. So if you are diverse, you can catch up with what your girl is talking about. Hence, you can interact more and gain trust.

Bro, you can learn a lot from this forum. Try to go over with the posts and see the advices given. This way you can have an idea what to do to in a similar situation. For me, reading and studying girl's behavior is right. In your case, since the girl is your friend, to to learn the things that she wants. You don't have to like it too but try to get a little grasp on it so that won't lose your connection with her.

I agree. Indeed, you'll surely have something to say if you know the topic she is talking about. Accompany it with creativity so that she will not get bore in your conversation. Girls like guys who are creative in handling a conversation.