Omegle

Omegle is a site that connects you with a complete stranger, and it is completely anonymous. You don't have to sign up for an account or anything. I have found that it is a great way to practice building conversations and attraction. It is also good to test texting lines.

Last night I was bored and so I visited the sight. I hooked up with someone, and I almost immediately knew it was an attractive women. You can usually tell, because they are very withdrawn and don't want to volunteer much information about themselves.

I chatted about any old thing and practiced weaving in multiple conversation threads. I made funny little jokes and cold read into much of what she did elicit about herself (Remember, everything a woman says, is a potential conversation hook). After about three minutes, she told me that she was a lingerie model in London and she had just got off of work. Now obviously, I have no idea if that was true, but since she didn't lead with that information, and it only happened after I had established great rapport with her, I'm pretty sure it was.

Once I learned that, I started stripper game on her. Soon she really opened up, and was telling me all about her life, her ambitions, and what she was studying in school. Soon she was qualifying herself to me at every turn. We talked for about an hour.

The point is, I got a chance to practice all of those techniques, and I got to do it at no emotional risk. I highly recommend that you use the site, especially if you suffer from bad Approach Anxiety. It is a good way to build skills and confidence in your abilities.

Care to share your 'Stripper game' strategy?

You know. Don't objectify their beauty. Talk about some of the challenges they face in their job, and make up crap about how "It must be hard to relate to people while you are working because you never know if they are only looking at your body." Ask them about practical problems and things they must face on their job. Anything to not make it about their beauty directly. Then after you have built enough confidence, and they relax, you can start weaving sexuality back into the conversation with out triggering a Bitch Shield. Basically show them that you are cool with how hot they are, that it isn't your primary focus in the interaction, and thus that you are selective and used to that kind of women. Finally, push-pulls are even more effective on these high value type targets.

Are you saying fugly women are more likely to volunteer information and be out there? Then I guess, what you said does figure. Pretty women already know they're pretty, and they're also likely to have issues with it since it usually defines their social life and careers. So telling them about how pretty they are would just be you squawking like a parrot. But asking them about how they feel about other things... that must make them feel they're able to prove they have substance too.

Cool.

Well, there are a lot of A$$holes on that site, so you have to know what you are doing to actually get women to admit to being women much of the time. That has nothing to do with their beauty.

If you are referring to what I call "Stripper game". Then you are correct. Women who are very beautiful, especially women who work jobs where they make money based off of their beauty are constantly inundated with sleazy jerks trying to get into their pants all the time. Even if that weren't the case, they still constantly get looks and comments on their beauty. Therefore, those comments not only don't count for anything, it puts them on guard faster than normal women. If you start down a sexual path too early in the relationship, or comment on their looks in any way, you run the risk of hitting the b1tch shield. However, if you don't do anything sexual or otherwise show interest, you won't make any progress, or they will think you aren't comfortable with women like them. So how you get around that, is you talk about aspects of their person that have absolutely nothing to do with their appearance. Then you can ask them things related to their job, so they know that you aren't threatened by their job. For instance, in the above case, I told the woman that I had been to a fancy lingerie store where the models had to pose perfectly still for hours. I asked her if she had ever had to do that, and how she managed to pull it off without cramping up. The question involved her career, but it didn't ever address her beauty. Once you finally have them comfortable enough to talk openly, then you start bringing in the sexuality that you would normally include in your game.