Share! Who do you go for?

I know that going for depressed, just newly-broken up girls could spell disaster. Either you set yourself up for a fall or you get a needy, clingy rebound gf you didn’t want in the first place.

But say you’re in a bar. Which girls do you play for? Do you try to hook up with ladies who came with some male friends? Do you only go for those who are alone, or with just one other friend? Do you get better results if you pounce on a group with friends? Do you go after the hottest one in the crowd, and how do you do it?

And if you’re hoping to get laid, are there signs you look for that the girl could be more amenable to nookie after?

Nubbi
I.want.to.be.great.

Pick-up is one of the only things I am aware of where a shotgun approach is generally the best approach. So to answer your questions. You open every set you can. Even if you totally bomb out, the fact that you are going around the room introducing yourself, helps set-up your social presence. It also helps you practice.

As to women that are easiest to get:
I find that generally the smaller the set, the better your luck. Also if a women is looking to get laid, she will give you ioi's really early on, look you in the eyes more, and generally do something with her teeth or mouth when she has your gaze.

So smiling a lot and biting her lips are good, good signs? Cool!

How do you bomb gracefully though?

Based on my experience, a girl giggles more, just generally laughs more over the things I say, when she's really into me. Plus, she keeps leaning close or forward and she actually initiates physical contact by touching my arm, or giving me opportunities to touch her.

Generally you don't. If you could recover, you didn't bomb out, now did you? Sometimes you can sense when a women is ignoring you or doesn't seem interested. If you were to exit, you wouldn't have bombed out, however a lot of those women can be turned around if you work on them a bit more.

That's good. It shows that you are good in initiating contacts. Yes, those are the obvious signs that she is into you. Some girls are like that they express themselves clearly but some don't you have to exert a little more effort to see those kinds of responses.

Personally, I go for girls who already smile a lot, are friendly enough, who show all signs of openness. They're the ones
who dance with the music even while sitting down, or who make good of the pole. They're the ones laughing with friends, who catches your eye when there is something funny or interesting going on, who shares information when asked.

I am attracted to girls who are confident with their looks and their bodies. I may not see them again or knock boots after
but I at least had a great time. I don't generally like having to waste precious time trying to open a girl up. I'd rather she's already in a mood to connect. Besides, bored people are boring. Hehe.

Well, I usually go for women heating up the dancefloor. Women who love to dance are more often than not, hot, otehrwise, they wouldn't be there. Plus, they're more often than not open to one night stands and games. They were there to attract the men in the first place.

So if you really want a hottie or you want to get lucky, the dancefloor is the perfect hunting spot. But you can't just stand near the girl and stare. You'd have to be more proactive than that. You have to approach her (ideally, from the side so she sees you coming but won't feel like you're running her down like a bulldozer), maybe even dance with her (or at least, spin her, high five, say something nice or intelligent while pretend-dancing or just touching her back or hips).

You also have to join in when the music playing is something you really like so you're more relaxed and look at home.

And always, you have to make eye contact.