attraction..how does it work?

i know that the more effort women put in to you the more attracted they become..though the puzzle i have is how do you Get Girls of the 8,9 and 10 calibre to invest in you?

the reason i ask is that i have gone out with girls, but never been able to get past the 1st date stage if you will. As in i've wanted to date/relationship/sleep with them but never been able to get them working for my attention or time..

how or what are some good tips to to make yourself attractive to women that you want to date, to get them to work for you're time and attention?

Have something to offer. Women, regardless of how hot or not they look, are still attracted by confidence. Confidence stems from having cash, wit, brawn or character. And maybe you can practice first with women that are not 9s or 10s just yet... hone your craft, build up credibility as a PUA and learn from your mistakes.

The thing about throwing stones at giants is that, yes, you hardly miss. But you also annoy them like hell and they're more likely to crush you as a response. Best to deal with them when they can already perceive you as their equal.

So yeah, do start small and work on improving your game. Chances are, the 8-10s already know a lot of guys' moves so you have to be particularly skilled to even have a chance with them.

For starters, look good. Read up. Practice engaging different sorts of people. And if you're in good terms with past dates, maybe you can ask them directly for feedback why there wasn't a second one. Women are generally helpful, we like it when a guy wants to improve himself. Ahihi.

Use Visualization techniques.

Part of having inner game is the ability to visualize that girls like it when you talk to them, that they're undressing you in their minds and throwing themselves at you. See, when you bombard your subconscious with the same thought again and again, it starts taking the thought seriously and you start believing it will happen. You start expecting it, and you start
being empowered to realize what you believe in.

So visualize the girl you want. Some even post pictures or a list of qualities of their type somewhere they'd see it all the
time. And visualize the girl responding to you. Work on how to just get those things to happen.

"When you know what you want, the whole world conspires you to achieve it." (The Alchemist)

body language maybe? Eye contact, being 'chill'.

Escalating conversation & Kino from mundane towards sensual then sexual. That's been difficult for me in the past, keeping the conversation escalating b/c you can end up talking about crap that doesn't get her excited all damn night, then you're f***ed. Then you're bff's already b/c you talked to her like you would your mom or sister then they wanna go shopping with you or something LOL.

A little off topic... don't knock shopping though. You at least get to see us in various states of undress. Plus, you can just as easily quip, when you get asked to do that with a girl, that "you will suffer the mall hopping if you can oggle and grope as much as you want during and after"

I usually get attracted to women who are gorgeous and pretty. I guess, I won't blame myself because it is the first thing that makes an impression. But having a great personality and a good communicator would definitely be plus. It makes women sexier and more attracted.

That is why they said set standards. Of course, we would like HB 9s than 8 but if you really want to practice your PUA techniques. You may practice it to lower levels before going to the more difficult ones. Hotter girls,especially with lots of experiences are difficult to get.

so..you're a burd then

You just have to figure that attraction is a part of human interaction, and human interaction at any stage can be programmed. If you say X, she'll say Y. Then it's just a matter of figuring out what X must be for each HB you meet. That's part of calibration.

If your ultimate goal is to date HB10's and only HB10's, start walking up to them every chance you get and working game. You'll get blown out of the water, but eventually you'll make it a little further, and the next one a little further, and so on, until you get it.

Remember Groundhog's Day? Every day he would walk up to the girl and talk, figuring out what worked, and when he hit a snag he just did the day over the next day, changing that last little bit? Pickup is exactly the same! Once you get your ability to program a conversation down, it'll feel like a script with little variation. Once you have officially made it all the way with an HB10, the others will be even easier. And similar to Groundhog's Day, when he had an unlimited amount of days to try on one girl, all of us have an unlimited amount of HB10's to try out your game on. Never ever forget that there are a million others exactly like her out there, and your ability to experiment new ideas will become significantly easier.