I need some BF destroyer lines.

Hey guys I'm 20 and I've been trying to win over this girl in one of my classes. The problem is that she's 23, works a lot, and looks like she walked out of a Victoria's Secret catalog, which makes it an uphill battle for me. I try to flirt with her all the time and usually my jokes lead to little giggles. I can't really say she looks at me a whole lot but when she does she usually has a small smile or looks away.

We walked to the bathroom on break and she went into the girls bathroom while I said "I don't think I need to be going in there with you.... unless you want me to, but that makes me a bad boy." I heard a laugh echoing from over there so it had to be a good sign. I followed up with sitting with her in class afterwards just BS'ing with her and saying silly stuff to make her giggle.

My dilemma is that if I continue to try to win her over I'm eventually going to start talking about possibly trying to get some food or something after class, and I'm waiting for her to say she has a boyfriend. I need some BF destroyers to keep my humor intact and still keep her on her toes without it going awkward. I will need something funny or smooth to say to defuse the situation.

Thanks guys.

Your assuming she has a BF...she may not. Don't wait be direct...women want you to lead the situation. If she's laughing at things you say...she likes you. Since you have a class together, ask her opinion of class material and then stop her and say lets go discuss this over coffee or soda or whatever.

Agreed with Biazza, never just assume that she had a boyf. That's just one example of your fears and insecurities creating walls and making things more difficult for yourself. The only barriers we have with women are self created.

As far as boyfriend "destroyers", for starters, you can't say enough times what a "nice" guy he sounds like. Eg. "Aww, he sounds like a really nice guy". Be sure to put extra emphasis on the word nice.

Also, use him as a barrier all day and night: "Well I would kiss you, it's too bad you've got that boyfriend". Framing yourself as the one who decides whether or not you kiss or whatever else.

Also, if she throws out the bf when you go for a number, use a, "well we should still hang out, but only as friends of course". Stress the friends part, but let a devilish smile spread across your lips as you complete that statement.

This stuff works on boyfs, fiancées, and husbands, but only if their relationship isn't a healthy one to begin with... and there's many many unhealthy relationships out there.

thanks for the replies. she does have a bf and she lives with and she drives 1.5 hours to school every day. I told her i had a goldfish and she had a puzzled look on her face, then i said "my bad i thought you were talking about crap that didnt matter".

plus i hinted at getting some grub and she said she had to be at work so i just kinda told her she needs to try to make time to do fun stuff like dating.

Arrgh,

Here's why that didn't work, and why you're essentially the victim of sh1tty community advice.

Her: I have a boyfriend, it kinda matters

You: No it doesn't, you're stupid

Now, don't get me wrong, the reason why the goldfish line and that other one have been written about is that it has worked in the past, and may work in some specific situations.

The reason why it usually won't can be traced all the way back to "How to Win Friends and Influence People". There, Dale Carnegie essentially said that when two people argue, no one wins. When she presented her point, you essentially argued with her and told her she was wrong.

Let's compare this to some good community advice that highlights this point concerning LMR. When a girl starts to hesitate in the sack, the equivalent to what you did would be to say something like, "why hesitate, we should fark". You're arguing with her and trying to convince her why she should sleep with you.

Anyone who's read the game will tell you that this isn't the way to sleep with her. Instead, you agree with her... "Of course, you're right, we should slow down, what are you trying to do to me?", and let your subtle actions say something different, or you shut her off.

Applying that advice to your situation, instead of arguing with her which will usually just push her away for good, agree. "Oh, that's great, how long have you guys been together, how's that going", and then do the sh1t I said and sneak in the back door - literally and figuratively.

Don't just believe some sh1t you read on the internet from some internet marketer masquerading as a "guru" unless it actually makes sense and works for you.

I appreciate the concern, but to assume that I told her that she was stupid for having a boyfriend is a little out of line.

Yeah I sarcastically said the goldfish line with a grin on my face, but that doesn't mean she was pissed about it. I can respect the fact she unexpectedly lives with some guy at 23 and I have a moral issue with throwing a wrench in that program. I deflated any possible awkwardness with a compliment and decided to move on to the next one. No blood, no foul.

Interesting, its usually their friends who tell me they have a boyfriend, after I have been playing with their hair, drawing PEN 15 on there arms, and showing them the most erotic parts of the ear, their ugly friend will get pissed and scream "She has a boyfriend!". What do you guys do for that?

Tell the friend... "And I take it you are the boyfriend's keeper?"

If the girl who has the boyfriend is letting you do these things to her, then either she doesn't see the fact that she is in a relationship an issue or that you're too subtle for her to even think anything's amiss (which is great, yeah?)... or she likes what's happening regardlesss of her situation. Anyhoo, I trust you can Isolate her away from her friends easily enough.