How To Pick Up A Waitress

The biggest myth to picking up waitresses is that they are “hard to pick up.” I believe the only guys who say that are ones who have never tried, because waitresses are the most receptive to game. To be a waitress means you have to be outgoing and friendly, qualities that go well with pick up artists so they need a receptive girl in order to deliver their game.

One thing that doesn’t work on waitresses is showing off with money. Chances are she gets it a dozen times a day and eventually it becomes hard for her to distinguish all the guys that are hinting at how much money they make. If you want to pick up a waitress the best angle to take is “poor service” angle. Let me explain…

You want to tease her that the service is not that great. For example she’ll bring you a drink and you joke, “This drink doesn’t have enough ice… the service here is really bad.” You say this with a smile on your face. That’s the key! She knows you’re just farking around.

Later say that you and your friend want to change waitresses with one who is more “warm and affectionate.” The idea is to bust her balls that she isn’t trying hard enough. Waitresses are very receptive to this type of game. Try it.

You should get to the point where you are having longer and longer conversation each time she comes to your table. If the restaurant is busy then this is going to be hard to accomplish because she simply won’t have the time to chat, but otherwise she may stick around the table for a minute or longer. Your goal is to ask her out for a drink before you get the check, so that she writes her number on the bill.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number.

Good luck!

I also believe that waitress are hard to pick up. I tried picking up hot waitresses but I can't get through to them. Maybe they are just focusing on their work rather than entertaining guys and hang out with them. Bu there are some friends of mine who says picking a waitress is quite easy. I'm a bit confused about this one... which is which?

You may get through to them better if you go for less sleaze and more encouragement. Not necessarily playing nice guy but at least giving them the feeling that they are more than just waiting for you. You can even work that into an Opener, something like, "you must be plumb tired to be on your feet all day, how about having coffee with me later and being waited on for a change?"

A girl I know used to complain that patrons treat them like sex objects all the time (she worked in a resto-bar). She later
quit coz she said 'her bum has had enough slapping'.

Personally, I find it difficult to pick up waitress. I think they already know how to be defensive from any PUA techniques. They seem to have a shield when guys try to pick up on them. Maybe because they know when a guy is trying to pick them up. Can we penetrate through them?

I tried with surprising failure. I tried to be an alpha and told her to meet me by the restroom because I wanted to ask her something. I really just told her "I don't want to sound like every other guy that comes in here, but how many guys tell you that you have a nice rack?". I told her not to tell my mates at the table what I said.

Simply put, she started checking up on my table ALOT more often and started flirting with me everytime, saying she liked my 'juicy' compliment and was flattered. But when I left I couldn't directly close her number and I gave her mine on a napkin. I told her if she was interested in what else I had to say then text me. She said she would hit me up but I never heard from her though. She may have lost the napkin but she's probably not interested.

Go for that idea bro. Try to see if she has the same reaction to your gestures and how she handles you as a customer and as a guy who tries hitting her...Quite a challenging and cool situation. You'll never know unless you try it right?