Going to a club for the first time

Don't do that! That is TAKING value from the group and the exact opposite of what you want to be doing. Neediness is taking value (guys and girls despise this).

Find ways to bring value.

When you're in a bar, enjoy yourself to the fullest. Try to meet up girls and try your pick-up skills. Don't pressure yourself to aim for success in picking up your target. If you do, you may blow up your night and get a negative feedback from the people around.

Can't wait for Mystery's FR. I seriously hope the anxiety resulted in numbers closed.

When you dress up, dress to fit the code, but also dress a little bit off. It is a more refined form of peacocking. For instance. If the club requires collared shirts and slacks, I like to wear something like my collared, form fitting shirt, that has a slight western look, and leave the top button undone. It is comfortable, shows that I am relaxed, and has a small element of sexuality. It gets me in, but it also is different enough from the standard get-up to get positive attraction.