Can't go in..

Maybe she's just negging you a bit. Try to be persistent and ask her if she has something to do over the weekends so that you can hang out with each other; go to a place that she likes. By the way, are you still seeing this girl after her saying NO to you? If so, you still have to look forward to go out with her.

Do you know any reason why she just suddenly flaking you out? Maybe there is something you mess up with her.?

i have a similar sitch with a few working as waitresses, one in particular. she loves the romantic love letters I write her on facebook and she writes back asking for more, but the only place i can see her is where she works and i can not get her out of there or from the net to somewhere just the 2 of us...

have put on the back burners for a few weeks and built up what i got with others. her mates dig me.... to a point and i am actually trying to keep this one open with at least 3 of them....

i get ok online with 2 and the third loves seeing me in her retail job. i have moved her ex on a bit. this was a funny one as i chatted all 3 up individually and they all worked out with each other that they liked the same bloke. the retail chick called me on it and and i said something to the effect of - well at least you know you all have similar taste and you will all stay mates if you all chat up the same bloke she loved it and said i am a celebrity amongst her mates now

Haha Coyote. That's cool. But wait, doesn't that also mean she doesn't like you that bad because she's not going all rabid and jealous and I don't know... competitive? Or am I just used to more stories of girls getting prissy offended when they find she and her other friends are being gamed by the same guy?

yeah a good reason. she was on drugs. i think its ICE or crystal meth these days and been a decade since i was out there. i usually stay away from heavy drinkers and drugs are definitely a no go for 2 energies trying to mix....

i had been with her maybe 6 weeks and it was all going good despite that she wanted me to help her with her drinking to which i said it was going to drastically change our relationship.... but that night when i dropped her home she was verbally defiant and aggressive and her and our "mutuial" mate had been going into the bathroom one after the other. I sorta dont care what people do at house parties or ever.... i was playing a fender strat, and when i looked back on it i thought she was being a bitch then she would ring and apologise etc...

she was good as she was happy that i saw other hot women and i liked her as she was cool

she has rung me twice since we parted ways about june the last time being new years eve. she made one of those calls as if saying "i should have listened to you at the time. You were right."

to which i replied, "yes, I know. I said so at the time"

moral of the story: people on drugs or alcoholics need to get help and some recovery before they go around playing with dangerous and potent energy/magick

sorry that last post was for the chick who said no to going somewhere for her birthday

this is for Mystery wannabe cos dude I reckon u have hit the nail on the head
yeah, this group of mates 4+ and I have contacts for three of them, are young, hot, and every other girl in their groups are hot... nothing below a 9. i don't know many of them model and one of them is trying to be promiscuous at the moment but it aint working for her.

i think they dig me cos my personality is open and i make crude jokes and i treat them like they are mates whilst when i flirt they appreciate it... a few indications have told me they feel some closeness to me

a fourth one picks up with me where the others leave off and obviously they talk and obviously i am the same with all of them. they know i check out and aren't after one of them etc... no games

when it was brought to me that i chatted them all, she said to me "you are a celebrity with us" which i figured they think i am cool

one of them booted me off facebook though as i responded to one of her wall posts along the lines that she hasn't really had real men in her life.... maybe her father. When we were at the dinner table next she was nervous of me and i carried on as though nothing had happened and let her know i couldn't give a Sh1t if i am on her facebook or not (seriously, do you know how many people have deleted me cos i tell the truth). She has been cool ever since so maybe.... but who cares.

Her ex was sniffing around her mates and tried to stand over me being an ex champion boxer and all and seeing as i am a man and know the people he kisses ass to and simply wasn't intimidated he is moving on. as i was a bit smaller than him, in our chat he tried to intimidate me saying how hard someone hit and in his wording he told me that he was finished boxing by 24 cos he didn't like being hit. that was my opening to get the boy going seeing i have a pretty nice pain threshold

yeah, fun group of chicks to hang with. the one who "found" me, we were having a tiff of sorts and i kept doing the annoying thing over time in a way that she sees my consistancy. we are cool again

the third one i write for as she is a romantic and that is something i enjoy sharing is my romantic love letters to her which she tells me she keeps and reads.

this is the sort of thing that is fun. i don't know where its going if anywhere but the interactions are fun and i am learning a bit about myself hanging with chicks this damn hot