Need some back-up..

A couple of times, when I go out with girls, I tend to have a blank-out mind. I don't understand if I'm not just interested in the topic of I don't have any idea. I wanted to keep the conversation interesting and spontaneous but I can't help it. My mind shuts down. Is there any way to perk up myself a little bit?

It is quite difficult to feed yourself with things that does not make you interested. Just keep an open mind and think positive. Go with her ideas and sometimes suggest what you like. Offer a give and take relationship. If needed, learn the things that she likes doing and maybe you'll like them too..

Maybe the tips at the ultimate Flirting Tips thread can get you started. I am especially recommending my last tip which is to ask them positive questions so that you have time to think, you can let them talk, they get excited in the process and warm over to you with the least amount of work... and you get an arsenal of information to use later.

In order not to sway away from your target, stay focus on what you do. Why would you spend time with her if you are not interested with her? SO just be consistent in your passion and drive to win her. After all, that's what you are trying to do right?

Could you be more interested in the game than the girl then? If that's the case, then maybe some hiatus is in order... that, or pick up someone you're really interested in, not just someone who happened to be hot, available and err, sexable

I agree. Are you doing this just because you want to pick up her( for the game's sake) or pick up her and make things much better with her, like get to know her and eventually hook up with her?? If that's the case, you need to focus on what you are doing. Eyes on the prize.....

Thanks guys. Your thoughts are helpful. I should stay focus. Focus in picking up the girl successfully, and not on the game. Happy New Year!

I'm glad to help you out bro.. !!! Keep it up..

Another tip. If you are not interested in the conversation, and you can't come up with useful input, sometimes the best thing to do is just to act how you feel: bored. If you look bored and a little non-commital and if you have built a little attraction, often the woman will blame herself for the conversation flagging, and she will over-do herself to try to get your attention. Some of my easiest pick-ups have been when I ran out of gas and just wasn't feeling it. I would start to turn away, and all of the sudden, the woman would be all over me.

Haha guns, but of course, few women (even the dumb ones) like being perceived as boring. It's like the kiss of death or something and would bring back memories of dates they thought went well till the guy didn't call after.