Alone

Sometimes you dont have a wingman or cant find one.But you do go clubbing in these situations you are pushed to meet people.In your opinion how should you handle clubbing alone. Do the rules of game change or not?

Going to clubs is way better if you are with your friends. Especially, when you are not that confident in dealing with different people in the club. However, when it comes to picking up a girl, the ball is all yours. You should learn the techniques and strategies in order to be successful in picking up girls.

I also prefer being with friends when going out in a bar. If you're alone, it looks like you are waiting for some prey to catch. And some girls think it's weird and creepy.

Even lions (well, lionesses mostly) hunt in packs (pride) because although you can be quite succesful doing it alone, it's just more efficient when you have friends helping to push prey your way. Plus, when all else fails, you have your buds to drink, laugh and have a good time with.

Plus, you increase value in a girl's eyes by having the time of your life (with her just being invited to your party, so to speak). That's kinda hard to pull off when you're alone.

I also find it weird when you are alone in a club. You are sitting in the bar, having some drinks and no one to talk to. You seemed to be lonely in the eyes of other people. It may be difficult to initiate a conversation with other people.

Not big on clubs myself but I think if you DO go alone and you're there to pick up women you sure as hell shouldn't just be sitting there. You should be finding people to talk to immediately. Can't imagine how you could sit there alone for more than 2 minutes without looking like a d*bag. Once you've cleared the room it's time to pack your $hit and hit the next place.

Actually, you walk in, open the first group, and let everyone see you with them, the other people don't know that you just met them. It's really that easy, yes, go sarging alone and be fine. No excuse to be scared to have no buddies around, I go out alone ALL the time.

I gotta say, wrong attitude.



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I know come off d1cky, but if you aren't going out to clubs at least 3 times a week, then you are never going to master this stuff, and going out alone is an important skill, otherwise you aren't self reliant.

When I walk into a club alone, yes I get the fear "What if i bomb, What if they don't like me, ect.." , but I go open the first set I see, and then go to another one, then another, and by set 4, I have some friends, I look popular, and I am pumped up.

Hehe. And maybe, if you don't have as much guts as Instinct here, you can try coffee shops instead.

But Instinct, seriously now, could you give examples of how you open up a group of people you don't know? What if a set has some guys already in it, do you still try opening them up?

From what I've learnt of Instinct, he's got big brass ones the size of Texas, so yeah, he's got something for opening groups.

Hell, he's taking it to the ice maidens of Germany as we speak.... er, type.

Hehe. And maybe, if you don't have as much guts as Instinct here, you can try coffee shops instead.

To be honest with you, I find clubs way easier than day game. It's harder to actually get to the clubs, but to open people, its way easier.

But Instinct, seriously now, could you give examples of how you open up a group of people you don't know?

If its all women, I almost always use the do I look gay Opener from Gambler's new dvd (I learnt this last week and have used it like 1,000 times, speaking of which, guys go order that DVD, its practically free and rocks). In Germany I use my "Implication Opener" of "You guys speak perfect English right, yea you do" and then just start. (<- keep giving my sh1t away!)

What if a set has some guys already in it, do you still try opening them up?

To tell you the truth, I find it easier when they have guys, cause I can open to men REALLY easy, In fact, I told MWB one time, that when I go into a club alone, I run towards the first men I see and say hi first , just to kill off my anxiety, then move on. I don't know why guys are more scared of mixed sets, I find them the easiest.