how hard it is to pick up alone?

im hesitant to go out all by myself to pick up woman. i just dont know what to do or where to go. im in between this crazy urge to go pick up and learn all by myself or wait until i have a partner in crime and pick up then. i feel like im losing precious time.

do you suggest i go out all by myself?

what should i keep an eye open for?

should i go in, open a couple sets win or lose and if i end up with #s or anything just go to other place or should i try to stick to one place and if i get something going with a specific girl keep it going?

i feel that since im going alone if i have nothing going on i should just go other place or go home since i dont want to be seen alone like a creep or something. i pretty much dont have any friends right now, like 0 friends to hang out.

should i aim high starting to the 10s and 9s or should i start getting experience with girls im certain i can appeal more based on looks(7s maybe 8s)?


im pretty puzzled here... i kinda have an overload of info in my brain and 0 experience applying that info.

thanks.

For me, going out alone and doing your game is different, especially when you are still a beginner. You got to learn a lot of things and skills first. I tried sarging alone and it was very difficult for me. So I decided to ask for some help of my buddy whose good at gaming. Everytime I go out, especially nigh outs, he's with me. He teaches me what to do, when to start and when to stop. As weeks pass by, he saw improvemtns in me. And he decided to let me be my own and do my game.

There is an ALONE thread here somewhere and the gurus of the board have already dscussed at lenth what guys can and should do. If you're really just a beginner, you might want to work on approaching strangers first and build up your confidence. I'd also make sure i've worked on my physical appearance, bearing, etc (how the world will see me) before i'd go sarging alone.

Before you step out and sarg alone, you must first build your confidence in dealing with other people, especially girls. Not to mention, social skills must also be well polished. It is difficult when going to a war if you're not equipped with the right gear and ammo. That is why learning the art and skills of the game must be first learned.

so what you guys suggest is that im not out there all by myself for now? it sucks because i want to experience some things and i dont have a single buddy in this place that wants to hangout like i do. i would kill right now to have a wingman.

Go and sarge solo, I promise you wont regret it.
Sarging solo is the quickest way to build your skill-set. Do some daytime approaches as they are more conducive to solo game. To this day i still prefer to sarge solo as opposed to sarging with a wingman. If you need some specifics or tips for day game feel free to PM me

Imo when you just started sarging it can be very difficult at first to get yourself to sarge alone. It's easier when you have an experienced Sarger with you to tell you the ins and outs of gaming..

If you don't have that advantage i suggest you rather go out alone or find a friend with similar interest so you can learn together. Going to sarge with AFC's who have no intention of mastering PUA will only bring your spirit and game down..

When you enter a venue you can talk to anyone, guys are the same as UB anyway so you can use them both for social value, becoming more social and maybe even find someone with similar interests so you can sarge with him/(or her) from there on.

I suggest you just go out to a local place and talk to everyone you see and Eject. This usually boosts confidence for me..

GL!

Go alone AND go with friends, but just go!

Oh and whatever it is that you want to make happen, just make sure everything you do is a step towards that goal. Patience and bravado will help, because there will be times you'll bomb man, but that's ok. All part of the game!

Why don't you have anyone to hang with? Did you just move or don't you make friends easily? You need to have your own life, which means guy friends too, at least 1 good one and a couple of occasional pals to drink or go out with or whatever. Some guys will just take you in to their circle of friends and it's on from there so look for that.

Most of the 'naturals' I've come across, have actually been really EASY to make friends with. That's just a trait of the naturals I've met so I said hey, this guy's f'in cool and picks up mad women so I'll be as good a friends as I can. I wish I had friends who actually 'gamed' consciously(and well) though b/c It's hard to talk about gaming with a pure natural as they have no Idea what they're doing but u can still pick up stuff.

Go out alone but each place you go, you're RIGHT into a set or something b/c standing there alone looking around the room is a dlv every second you're doing it in my opinion. Keep moving and when you've talked to everyone and run out of leads get the hell out. It's not 'hanging out' at the bar, it's business and meet a lot of people fast.

i just got separated and moved. all my other friends are other married guys that dont hang out. so im making new friends once again. people that would hang out.