Let's Talk Cockblocks

A cockblock is anyone or anything that prevents you from doing a full close with your target. They interfere with our game whether accidentally or on purpose. These are the AMOGs, wing man, third wheel, big fat friend... even parents, friends and alcohol can be cockblocks.

Some of them are intentional
- spiteful people who don't even like the girl you're after, or you, but would rather die than see anyone getting laid and having fun that night
- rivals who know they've failed but wouldn't let you win either
- jealous girls who haven't had anyone offer to buy them drinks or ask them to dance in a long ass time
- sister's keeper, who was asked beforehand by your target (or by everyone in the set) to guard their asses and keep them from doing something they'd regret
- scary institutions like parents, health teachers and Catholic upbringing (but just love dating choir girls!)
- leaked, false info about you/gossip (which is why it's great starting fresh in a new town)

Some are unintentional
- dang cellphone. Make you girl turn hers off!
- alcohol (either she can't get up after the party, or yours won't)
- circumstances (you don't have your own place, extra money, own car, etc)



Now, what types have you encountered? How did you handle them? Let's all learn from each other!

Kinda late for me with the tight college contacts thing but sure appreciate your inputs Instinct. Hope to hear more from others.

i think i have a cockblock and something in my life that portrays insecurity and maybe even failure. My CAR. i have a nice car but i wanted it to be show quality, started painting and its sitting on primer right now as we speak. has been like that for around 2 years without any progress. its a failure in my life and it sucks badly, kills some of my confidence.

it happens pretty much everyday. if i have good looking girls around and im walking to my car i feel ashamed. i dont want to invite anyone to anything because im ashamed of offering a ride in my car. this sucks badly and limits my game for sure. i dont think ill be able to fix it or to pay anyone to do it in at least 3 months so what do you guys suggest? i was thinking on buying a motorcycle as soon as i get the money 3 months from now so i can have some fun with it and use it for dating and such. i can also use that money and pimp my car up to what i always wanted to. it seems like everybody else has a nice car. kinda dlv me.

If you think the car is crap then it is...if you really don't then its not. Whatever you strongly believe you will give off a vibe...if you feel insecure about it it can show and dlv you. Don't worry about it. Back in highschool I used to NEVER UNDERSTAND why my friend Danny used to hook up with the hottest and I mean HOTTEST girls and drove a giant green full sized van. He would actually go up in a group and be like...hey you guys keep an eye on my van and make sure no one steals it. Everyone would laugh but he would keep a straight face with kind of a sly grin while acting like the coolest bad boy in the group and that nothing bothered him. It was later that I realized that his strong confidence was a big attraction spike for girls. It never hurt him and I don't see it hurting anyone as long as you don't make it a big deal.

Oh, but it's easier to fool around in a van! Haha, that much I know.

One cockblock i've encountered is when the red flag is up. Or so they say. Man, I never really know if they're telling the truth or not. And i'm always hardpressed to look cool about it. I mean, I know girls don't really like doing it but I know I also need work on being cool and not being turned off myself. Haha. I think i've lost many hand or blow job opportunities that way.

What I do when the red flag is up is just continue kissing and nuzzling and groping while I digest the information. If I was informed in a way that suggested she's all tortured as well, then I just assure her with kisses, tell her I have no problem with that (because I really don't, some guys do) and then tell her we'll do what she's comfortable with. I can jack off later anyway... and i'm one of those guys who can kiss and grope for hours.

You're right, few girls like getting it on especially with a stranger when it's that time of the month but when they see you all acting cool and noble about it, they're more likely to offer you release. Depending on the moment, and if I can sense she'd be into it, I either ask if I can jack off or just lead her hand (or head) to it.

Now, if she said it like it's a warning or something she's using to stop herself... I still just continue kissing. Usually they ARE lying. If you aren't sure, you might not want to continue because if she isn't, you can't be grossed out when you find out.

all good, and i want to post something before i have to go.

Once upon a time, in a local message board, I met these friends who love to drink and all that sh1t. We started just interacting at the board and there was this one girl who was flirting with this one guy and that was that. I, since I didn't know them all, flirted with everybody (even the girls). Anyway, at one of the board's events, the guy spotted me and started showing his interest in me. I didn't know him from Adam but we did get to meet and he was cute and intelligent and I liked him.

Now, the girl realized that the guy had the hots for me and attempted to cockblock him by telling me that I should be wary of him because he was leading her on and they even kissed but after the date, the guy acted all cool and whatever on her. Though she was fun to hang out with, however, I was a little offended that she didn't think I could look out for myself and that she put me in the same league as her (don't mean to sound arrogant and I know looks aren't everything, but come on!). Needless to say, I dated the guy for two months and had unimaginably great sex with him.

Unfortunately for me though, whoever the girl fancies ends up flirting with me, it became ludicrous dodging her bitchiness so I just quit the board.

I don't think I shared any tips about handling cockblocks but scorned women can be real ugly, am telling you, and not just because they ARE ugly.