ill tell you the tests ive noticed:
i did this on purpose; i was talking in plural and a girl ive been talking to asked me who went to eat with me. I believe that if i answer, its like im giving her power over what i do in my life. we are nothing right now so she doesnt have the right to ask. Also the jealousy works in my favor.
the same girl claiming sh1t on me and acting all "im the boss": i stopped her right there and let her now she had to cool her attitude. she was using strong body language and i used a strong tone and nice words to let her know. If i wanted to be ina relatioship with her she would try to walk all over me unless i stop her like i did and put her in her place.
btw this girl has asked me out. but she has that "im a good girl" thing that i dont have the time and energy to break thru. i put her in the "just friend" area of my life :P
one girl asked me: why do you do that? about a hobby and i said because i like to, i will take you with me so yuo can try it too.
ive found that i can get away with anything i say if i do it confidently, in a strong(not too strong) and loving way.